Thank you!

By sharing your votes today, you have impacted the the choices being made for creating 4 new posters on Teen Dating & Teen Relationships to add to the “Do You Ask?” poster series.  THANK YOU!!

Once the final choices go to production, names will be drawn to give you the chance to win FREE posters.  Plus, you will receive an email with a special code giving you a special discount off the posters during the first week they are available online!

Did you know you can now download the critically-acclaimed book Voices of Courage for FREE?  Download the ebook, audio book (including 26 audio tracks), or BOTH!!  You choose.

Your time on our website is greatly appreciated.  Please take the opportunity to look around, watch video clips, read articles, and participate in our online forums.  Be sure to look at the NEW “Can I Kiss You?  Do You Ask?” T-shirts (click here).  ENJOY!

VOTE for Statements on Posters – and ADD

Below are statements provided to us by students for an upcoming addition to our current “Do You Ask?” educational poster series. This new addition of posters will be addressing texting, safer dating, and healthier relationships with a PROACTIVE APPROACH (as the “Do You Ask?” posters currently do with consent and sexual decision-making).  You are voting on the FINAL 11 Choices.

In the VOTING section below, share your favorite statements (list the # of the statement – such as #21, #99, etc…) and include WHY!   You are highly encouraged to ADD additional statements you would like to see  on posters. Any words in GREEN FONT below are questions we here at The Date Safe Project Inc are asking YOU TO ANSWER.

Please remember we focus on positive solutions in our mission here at The Date Safe Project Inc.

FYI – all of the below statements came from students in DelRay Beach, Florida and in the Holland, Michigan region (Thanks, Jennifer and Lesley):

  1. “Just because I CAN contact my partner 24/7, doesn’t mean I have the RIGHT to or should!”
  2. “If you want to be with me, respect my boundaries.  Independence is a priority for me in relationships.”
  3. “I talk before deciding to commit to a relationship.  Knowing each other’s boundaries is FUN and the RIGHT thing to do.”
  4. “She said her friends & family are an important part of her life.  I agree. Plus, having time apart is HEALTHY!”
  5. “I enjoy time spent with my partner AND with the other special people in my life.”
  6. Respect is Brave/Bravery (what imagery would you want with this?)
  7. Loving someone is not the same as having property.  You DON’T OWN me!
  8. I’m not ready for a kid.  If you are, find someone else.
  9. Pressure, control, uncomfortable = not love.
  10. 2B or not 2B brave enough to speak out against dating violence
  11. Control is not Love

Place your VOTES below:

Name
Email
Age
Gender
Top 4 posters you would PURCHASE:
What you LIKE:
CHANGES you would like to see:

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Read the 12 survivors of sexual assault’s powerful chapters in the E-Book and then listen to each survivor read his or her chapter directly to you in the Audio Book. Plus, you get to hear personal interviews of each survivor. More importantly, you will be reading a book and listening to CDs that will change many lives.

To download the critically-acclaimed E-book and Audio Book, click here.  Want to learn more about the book? Click here to discover the resource professionals, educators, survivors, and agencies around the world turn to each day.

Thanks – Now DOUBLE your chance to Win a shirt!

Thanks for confirming your email address with us here at The Date Safe Project, Inc. For you taking the time to confirm your email address, we want to DOUBLE your opportunity to win the new “Can I Kiss You?” T-shirts being launched in a couple of weeks. To double your chances, please VOTE for your favorite design by clicking here.

Thanks for making an IMPACT

By sharing your votes today, you have impacted the final selection of the “Want Some Action?” T-shirt.  THANK YOU!!

On August 9th, names will be drawn to give you the chance to win FREE SHIRTS (both the “Can I Kiss You?” shirts and the “Want Some Action?” shirt).  Plus, the email you will receive on August 9th will include a special code giving you a discount off the shirts.  Did you know you can already order the new “Can I Kiss You?” shirt and you’ll get 20% OFF the price?  Click here to check it out for yourself.

Plus, you can download the critically-acclaimed book Voices of Courage for FREE.  Download the ebook, audio book (including 26 audio tracks), or BOTH!!  You choose.

Your time on our website is greatly appreciated.  Please take the opportunity to look around, watch video clips, read articles, and participate in our online forums.  ENJOY!

INTERNS and Volunteers Wanted!

Are you creative and/or talented? Are you a problem-solver? We are currently looking for caring and talented individuals who want to volunteer their time to help spread the mission of The Date Safe Project Inc.  If you are a student, we would be happy to create a volunteer internship to help you gain credit at school and/or build your resume.

Upcoming projects include:

  1. Online Student Membership Section Development (ideas for articles, help setup interviews with experts & renown personalities; tele-seminars, etc…)
  2. Reviews of movies, TV shows, music – must relate reviews to how the “art” related to the issues we discuss (such as our current discussion on the blog about the “True Blood” HBO series showing a violent sexual scene).
  3. Creation of more educational products helping promote important messages (T-shirts, clothing line, usable products for students, etc…)
  4. Work with corporations to team up with The Date Safe Project Inc.
  5. Building curriculum for K12 schools and potentially universities.
  6. and much more.  If you have an idea, let us know!

To get involved, use our “Contact Us” page here on the website.  Share why YOU want to help and why you are the RIGHT person to help make a difference.  Please provide a few personal and professional references.

Parenting Unplugged – Listen In

Parenting Unplugged just had Mike Domitrz, the Executive Director of The Date Safe Project Inc, to reveal unique and helpful strategies for parents of tweens and teens.  Listen to the thought-provoking interview below. You will get lots of great ideas you will want to implement immediately with your family.  If you are a teacher, you will find the tips helpful for when school starts back up in the Fall.



After listening (and while listening), post your comments and questions for Mike Domitrz in the “COMMENTS” section here on our blog. Mike will personally respond to each comment and/or question.

Single, Married, Parents, and Schools

On this page, DISCOVER:

#1 for Single, Committed, & MARRIED individuals!

As you know, finding an educational and engaging program for the men and women on your installation can be difficult because you have single individuals, people in committed relationships who are not married, and you have married couples.  One of the best aspects of the “Can I Kiss You?” program and Mike Domitrz’s approach is “Asking First“, “Opening a Door,” and “Being a Friend” works no matter what kind of a relationship you are in or are not in. Why?  Because INTIMACY can occur in each situation (single or married).

Mike’s upfront approach enables and encourages the men and women in the audience to ask more detailed questions.  Thus, giving individuals great opportunity to dig deep into their own situation and explore the exact application of respect, asking first, and supporting survivors in their specific lives. No other program addresses this unique diversity which exists in every audience.

Time and time again, military men and women say, “Thank You” to Mike for creating an open and honest atmosphere which included everyone (single or married).  Ironically, such appreciation is shown from both singles and married couples – both groups often feel other presentations tend to only speak to one of them and not the other.  “Can I Kiss You?” breaks that perception barrier and brings everyone into the conversation!

PARENTS, Their TEENS, and the Schools

Family life has one of the biggest influences on the men and women in our military.  Providing useful and insightful resources which can give our military members with teenagers real solutions to challenges in their home leads to more focused & well-rounded military members.

The HELP! My Teen Is Dating.  Realistic Solutions to Tough Conversations seminar is changing the way parents and their teenagers are approaching, discussing, and handling decision-making regarding dating, intimacy, and parties.

In one hour, parents will discover several simple steps to effectively engaging their teenagers.  Best of all, the lessons are designed to be flexible to the personality of EACH TEENAGER in a family.  As you  are aware, no one solution exists for every teenager or for every parent.  Each child, parent, and family is different.  In this interactive program, you will laugh, learn, and be inspired to take immediate action upon getting home.  Mike Domitrz will even give you a few tips to help get the conversation rolling – without your son’s or daughter’s eyes rolling back at you.

**This workshop is based on Mike Domitrz’s award-winning DVD by the same title.

SCHOOLS (DoDEA and local schools)

Middle schools and high schools fully understand how important discussions on respect, boundaries, healthy dating, intervening with friends in difficult situations, and addressing sexual assault is for their students.  The “Can I Kiss You?” general assembly for middle schools and high schools is one of the most sought-after programs in the United States.

Hundreds of students engaged!

As you may be aware, DoDEA schools (and local schools) often struggle to find an age appropriate presentation they can bring to their students and families. One of the greatest benefits of bringing Mike Domitrz’s briefing to your installation is you can ALSO bring the “Can I Kiss You?” program to your schools during the same day.  ENTER HERE to discover all the information you will want on the K12 version of this interactive, skills based presentation for students and staff.

THE ULTIMATE DAY

More and more military installations are having The Date Safe Project, Inc and Mike Domitrz provide an educational package which is truly all inclusive.  The military gets fantastic training, teens of our military members get a whole new approach to decision-making, and their parents gain simple skills to reinforcing positive choices back in the home.  For installations who want to provide their men and women the ultimate experience and growth opportunity, they will often do at least the following:

1:30pm:  “Can I Kiss You?” Educational Show for K12 Schools.

3:00pm: “Can I Kiss You?” Briefing for Men and Women Serving in the Military

6:30pm: “HELP! My Teen Is Dating” Workshop for parents.

Of course, you don’t have to squeeze everything into one day.  Installations will frequently schedule Mike to speak on multiple days to insure enough briefings are available for all men and women to experience the training – while also providing time for the school programs and the evening workshops for parents. Help create lifelong change for your military community by bringing all 3 presentations to your installation!

Help Your Parents & Schools.  Call 800-329-9390.
Ask About the Special Offfer.

**You can click here to send us an email.

Listen LIVE to Mike Domitrz

Tuesday, June 22nd, Mike Domitrz will be the featured guest on Parenting Unplugged Radio at http://parentingunpluggedradio.com/ at 1pm (Central Time Zone or 11am West Coast Time Zone).  You can listen live from the website.  Mike will share strategies for talking to your tweens and teens about dating, intimacy, and decision-making.  Join this insightful, revealing, and powerful 30 minutes of MUST HEAR content!

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