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Go For It in College & In Life

Are you ever amazed how many people give college students advice like, “Don’t do anything stupid while you are in college!” Are you kidding me? What kind of life are you living if you never look stupid once in a while.

As my Godson goes off to college, I was thinking of what I learned along the journey. Here is a little of what I shared with him (of course the rest is confidential):

College is an awesome time, especially when you truly go after your dreams (and not make the mistake many students make of going after a steady job). In the movie “Up in the Air,” George Clooney’s character ask a guy, “How much did they pay you to give up on your dreams?” He was referring to the guy settling for a “Good Job” over doing what he loved. GREAT LINE!

In college and in life, use your education to put your passion into action! You will have newfound independence. You will make some mistakes – that never stops happening in life and so learn from them and then move on. Live with your eyes forward so you can see where you are going (looking backyards sends you backwards). Be sure to find a way to have a laugh each day. :-)

Oh yea. When AMAZING opportunities present themselves to you, seize them. Study abroad. Get involved. Make a POSITIVE impact. There is an old cliche: As long as its legal, ethical, moral, and won’t hurt anyone (including yourself mentally, emotionally, spiritually, or your health), go for it!!

What would YOU add?

Written by Mike Domitrz on August 20, 2010

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“In a perfect world, what would you need and want?”

When working on a project for the National Speakers Association earlier today, Randy Gage (Prosperity Expert), asked me this question:

“In a perfect world, what would you need and want?”

Then he was able to provide us what we needed and wanted. Thanks, Randy.

Now what about you? For working to help students, young adults, educators, and/or parents to address dating, sexual decision-making, consent, and/or supporting survivors, what would your answers be to, “In a perfect world, what would you need and want?”

I look forward to personally responding to everyone’s comments.

Written by Mike Domitrz on August 19, 2010

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“Like” page on FaceBook – now we are making waves

You have to love FaceBook for the medium it provides everyone. Today, we discovered someone started a “Like” page against asking for a kiss (specifically the phrase “Can I Kiss You?“). In fact, this person actually is using the BUTTONS we provide here on our website for their image on their FaceBook “Like” page (yes OUR button with our saying and our website).

A PR expert once told me the day websites and people are mocking you – is the day you’ll know when your mission is effecting people on a mainstream level. For us, we simply find it encouraging to know people’s beliefs are being so challenged that they are creating online mediums to discuss it!

By the way, did you know we have a “Friend” page on our FaceBook Fan Page (click here).

Written by Mike Domitrz on August 16, 2010

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WOW to TOWSON!

Towson University made me say, “WOW!” throughout the day today. The students desire and passion to create positive change was obvious from the start of our “Train the Trainer” session with the RAs (Resident Assistants) and the Peer Educators on campus. Everyone asked great questions and dived deeply into the discussion. You could tell this group of student LEADERS was going to help bring a large audience out to the evening “Can I Kiss You?” show.

Did you attend today’s programs? Get your FREE BOOK here in our store (and save $5 on the T-shirts). Next, share your response to the show by using our fun Audio Testimonial Program (click here). Then remember to sign-up for our Daily Giveaway on the right side of this page.

Right before the “Train the Trainer” session, we had an in-depth conversation with staff on being innovative and cutting-edge with teaching the many principles we discuss in the “Can I Kiss You?” program. We shared concepts using technology and HOW to approach sensitive issues with student populations.

At dinner, we discussed various views on certain kinds of educational/awareness events hosted on campuses. Next was the “Can I Kiss You?” program. As we approached the room about 30 minutes early, a long line had already gathered to get inside. Towson promoted getting FREE BOOKS & SHIRTS to the first 50 people. The promotion worked. The school was originally hoping to fill the room with 500 students. They easily topped their GOAL when additional chairs were needed and others ended up sitting on the floor to fit in the room. The energy was wonderful. A BIG THANK YOU to everyone throughout the day.

WATCH THEIR VIDEO BELOW!

Written by Mike Domitrz on February 3, 2010

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Jacob, 18 yr old high school senior, speaks out

After watching the sexual assault and healthy dating general assembly at his high school titled “Can I Kiss You?“, 18 year old Jacob shares his thoughts. Often students dread attending programs on serious and sensitive topics such as sexual assault. Jacob reveals this concern early on and then shares what happened as the program advanced.

Did you attend the program? If so, share your FEEDBACK by leaving a comment here or use our FUN Audio Testimonial Program (where you leave a voicemail and YOUR voice is ten heard on our website for others to listen)! Click here to use Audio Testimonial.

Written by Mike Domitrz on February 3, 2010

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Teenage Dating: 18 year old asks a question

Ron, a high school senior in South Dakota, is asking you the following question in the video. WHAT do you think Ron is referring to? After WATCHING the video, see the possible answers and then find out the TRUTH.

WHAT is Ron referring to in the video?

Wait til you are an adult for engaging in sexual activity with a partner (63%, 5 Votes)
Living on your own and/or with your partner (25%, 2 Votes)
Waiting til you are 18 to start dating (13%, 1 Votes)
Teenagers drinking while on a date or "hooking up" (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 8

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Find out the answer by entering your name and email below. Hit SUBMIT and you’ll be forwarded to exactly what RON is referring to in the video.

Written by Mike Domitrz on February 2, 2010

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Sexual assault, alcohol & supporting survivors @ Wake Forest

WOW! Wake Forest University knows how to promote an educational event addressing sexual assault, intimacy, dating, and alcohol. Better yet, they know how to get RESULTS! Last night, over 1100 students (over 25% of their student body) attended the “Can I Kiss You?” program in Wait Chapel. The team on campus who was responsible for bringing me to speak was a DYNAMITE combination of talent, expertise, and passion. They worked diligently with several organizations and groups (Athletics, Greek Life, and the Student Center — all which showed up in big numbers).

As you scroll down through this blog posting, you will see video footage from the event. Join the Wake Forest students in making a commitment by signing the “Pledge for Action” here.

Did you attend the program at Wake Forest University?
If so, share your thoughts and feedback! Let us HEAR your voice by using our Audio Testimonial Program (click here). Another option is to share in our online forums.

Remember to INVITE all your family and friends to watch you in the below video!!

Written by Mike Domitrz on January 27, 2010

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Courage and Bystanders

“Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear – not absence of fear.”
~ Mark Twain (1835 – 1910)

As we have recently seen more discussions about bystander intervention, may we all remember Mark Twain’s words. When someone tells you, “I was too afraid to say anything,” remind him/her,

“Everyone is afraid. FEAR is your brain TELLING you something is WRONG and you must take ACTION. A time of fear is your greatest opportunity to show courage. Be Courageous and do the RIGHT thing!”

Written by Mike Domitrz on November 19, 2009

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Discover who WAS A FRIEND during the Richmond High School gang rape (sexual assault) of a 15 year old student

In the video below, discover a powerful element the media is not covering much in the Richmond High School gang rape (sexual assault) of a 15 year old student outside the Homecoming Dance. THEN, sign the THANK YOU page below the video.