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		<title>Continuing the Impact LONG After the Program</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[On this page, you will DISCOVER: Do You Ask? Educational Poster Series Critically-Acclaimed Books Pledge for Action POSTERS After you bring an educational program to your installation, do you wish you had more opportunities to continue the lessons learned in the expert&#8217;s presentation? Now you can! The &#8220;Do You Ask?&#8221; poster series is the most [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.doyouask.org" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-5208" style="margin: 2px;" title="Do You Ask? Poster Series" src="http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/DontGuessWithMyBody_tiny.jpg" alt="" width="75" height="116" /></a></p>
<p>On this page, you will DISCOVER:</p>
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<li><a title="Educational posters on consent, bystander Intervention, and healthy relationships" href="#MilPosters">Do You Ask? Educational Poster Series</a></li>
<li><a title="Critically acclaimed books by Mike Domitrz" href="#MilBooks">Critically-Acclaimed Books</a></li>
<li><a title="Pledge for Action for the military" href="#MilPledge">Pledge for Action</a></li>
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<h2><a name="MilPosters"></a>POSTERS</h2>
<p><a></a>After you bring an educational program to your installation, do you wish you had more                opportunities to <strong><span style="color: #008000;">continue the lessons learned</span></strong> in the expert&#8217;s presentation?  Now you can!  The &#8220;<em><strong>Do You Ask?</strong></em>&#8221; poster series is the most direct consent based educational poster series used throughout the world.   Each poster is both eye-catching and                educational.   The &#8220;<strong><em>Do You Ask?</em></strong>&#8221; theme of this                innovative                poster campaign teaches everyone, &#8220;<em>The only way you can absolutely                know what your partner wants is by asking first!</em>&#8220;</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>We&#8217;re in the process of matting, framing and adding our plaque to your posters&#8217; for our base dormitories!  I think it&#8217;s <strong><span style="color: #008000;">great outreach prevention efforts for our Airmen</span></strong>. Also, I&#8217;m still receiving excellent feedback from your briefing and it&#8217;s been a few months.  Hope all is well.</em>&#8220;<br />
<span style="color: #003300;">Heather Van Mill, McChord AFB</span></p></blockquote>
<p>You <strong><span style="color: #008000;">get outstanding discounts</span></strong> when purchasing bulk quantities of the posters. With 50 or more posters, you save over 40% off EVERY poster AND you get<strong> <span style="color: #008000;">2 posters for the price of 1</span></strong>. (which means you are really saving 80% off each poster).  Check the popular posters out at <a title="Educational posters addressing consent, bystander intervention, and more" href="http://datesafeproject.org/educational-tools-resources/do-you-ask-poster-series" target="_blank">www.doyouask.org</a>!!</p>
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<h2><a name="MilBooks"></a>BOOKS</h2>
<p><img class="size-medium wp-image-500 alignleft" style="border: 1px solid black; margin-left: 3px; margin-right: 3px;" title="front_cover_voicesofcourage" src="http://datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/front_cover_voicesofcourage-193x300.jpg" alt="Voices of Courage" width="65" height="99" /></p>
<p><img class="size-medium wp-image-423 alignright" title="cover_front" src="http://datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/cover_front-180x300.jpg" alt="May I Kiss You? written by Mike Domitrz" width="63" height="104" /></p>
<p>In addition to the powerful line of posters, you can utilize both of              Mike Domitrz&#8217;s books, <a title="May I Kiss You? book by Mike Domitrz" href="http://datesafeproject.org/educational-tools-resources/may-i-kiss-you-book" target="_blank"><strong>May I Kiss You?</strong></a> and <a title="Voices of Courage book" href="http://datesafeproject.org/educational-tools-resources/voices-of-courage-book" target="_blank"><strong>Voices of Courage</strong></a>, to continue the lessons and skills shared throughout the day with Mike on your campus.  Get the books for a discounted bulk price in the <strong><em>100 PACK</em></strong> special package.  With the <strong><em>100 PACK</em></strong>, you choose 100 books (any combination of the 2 books you want) and you get each book for only $8 (<span style="color: #003300;"><em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">over 50% discount</span></strong></em></span>).  Mike will be happy to sign each book for you and your military members.  Plus, you can <strong>include the &#8220;<em>Can I Kiss You?</em>&#8221; T-shirts as part of the 100 PACK</strong>.  <strong><span style="color: #008000;">Call 800-329-9390 to get the </span></strong><em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">100 PACK</span></strong></em><strong><span style="color: #008000;"> now</span></strong>!</p>
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<h2>PLEDGE for ACTION</h2>
<p>Plus, the <span style="font-size: 9pt;"><strong>Pledge for Action</strong></span><sup><span style="font-size: 6pt; font-weight: 700;">RM</span></sup> is an educational <strong><span style="color: #008000;">campaign to use throughout your installation, community and region</span></strong>.  <span style="font-size: 9pt;"><strong>Pledge for Action</strong></span><sup><span style="font-size: 6pt; font-weight: 700;">RM</span></sup><span style="font-size: 9pt;"> is a powerful agreement students, families, military members, educators, and individuals sign to pledge that <strong><span style="color: #008000;">they will do their best</span></strong> to help their family, friends and peers in potentially dangerous moments concerning alcohol, drugs, and sexual assault. After you have read the agreement and/or used it with your military members, please scroll down this page to share your comments.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 9pt;">How it works?   Each individual signs one copy of the full agreement and signs one copy of the Hearts Page.  You can download the  entire agreement (full page and hearts page) when you scroll down this page.  The signed copy of the full page is given to the individual to take home  and the signed Hearts page is to be placed in  specific locations around your installation and/or community.  By  placing all the signed hearts throughout your installation (and in the nearby communities), your military members, their families and the  entire community will realize how <strong><span style="color: #008000;">many  people DO care about this issue and are committed to helping others</span></strong>!</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>PLEDGE FOR ACTION<sup><span style="font-size: 6pt; font-weight: 700;">RM</span></sup></strong></p>
<p>I, ____________________________________________, pledge to do my best to help my family, friends, and peers in potentially dangerous situations in which drugs, alcohol, a violent person, or other threats to their safety and well-being are present. I will do this by having the focus and self-control necessary to remain aware of my surroundings, the wisdom to identify dangerous situations, and the courage to take action in confronting my friends when their judgment is impaired.</p>
<p>I recognize that these dangerous situations may arise at times when people feel safe and comfortable, such as at bars, parties (especially when alcohol is influencing the situation and a person is trying to “hook up” with another individual), or in the context of a romantic relationship. I realize that it may not always be easy to help people from harm in these situations, but by remaining watchful and showing care and concern, I may help to prevent a sexual assault from occurring.</p>
<p>I understand that the ONLY person responsible for a sexual assault is the person who engages in sexual contact without the consent of the other person. Through my own positive words, actions, and beliefs, I am taking the responsibility of helping to end sexual assault. I will share with people the importance of consent and the need to obtain consent with your partner by Asking First.  I will treat all survivors of sexual assault with my respect and admiration.  I will inform all of my family, friends, and peers that “If anyone ever has or ever does sexually touch you without your consent, I will fully support you. I will always be here for you. Always (from simply listening to helping you seek the proper support from professionals)!” During the next 24 hours, I will start putting this pledge into action by saying these words to at least 3 people.</p>
<p>Sexual assault is a horrific and traumatic crime. My active commitment to this project will help reduce the violence in my community and create a safer atmosphere for everyone.</p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><a href="http://datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/Pledge_for_Action.pdf" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-weight: 700;">DOWNLOAD the 2 page PLEDGE FOR ACTION</span><sup><span style="font-weight: 700; font-size: 7px;">RM</span></sup></a><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-weight: 700;"><a href="http://datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/Pledge_for_Action.pdf" target="_blank"> to utilize in your community!</a></span></span></p>
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