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		<title>Abstinence &amp; Consent &#8211; Do They Belong Together?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 20:15:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Domitrz</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How discussing consent is the ultimate way to discuss abstinence. Throughout the country, some parents and educators are saying, “Our schools believe in discussing abstinence. Won’t teaching teenagers about consent lead to more sexual activity among those same teenagers?” Teaching consent stresses establishing personal standards, respecting boundaries, and always understanding the importance of having a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>How discussing consent is the ultimate way to discuss abstinence.</em></p>
<p>Throughout the country, some parents and educators are saying, “Our schools believe in discussing abstinence.  Won’t teaching teenagers about consent lead to more sexual activity among those same teenagers?”  Teaching consent stresses establishing personal standards, respecting boundaries, and always understanding the importance of having a choice.</p>
<p>Unequivocally, students participating in the <a href="http://datesafeproject.org/2009/schools-and-communities-are-cheering/"><strong>“Can I Kiss You?”</strong></a> programs say <em>&#8220;asking first&#8221;</em> will greatly reduce the amount of sexual activity among their age group (thus increasing the level of students practicing abstinence).  Teenagers share the following four main reasons for why<br></br><br></br><a href="http://datesafeproject.org/register/not-a-dsp-insider/">...to continue reading this article you must be a <strong><em>DSP Insider</em></strong>.  Click here to join today!</a><br></br><br></br>Already a DSP Insider?  Login below: <div class='WishListMember_LoginMergeCode'><form action="http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-login.php" method="post" class="wlm_inpageloginform">
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