Voices of Courage (Book and CDs)

front_cover_voicesofcourageFrom tragedy to triumph, inspiring lessons unfold in this one-of-a-kind book by twelve survivors of sexual assault. An eye-opening journal of personal growth and recovery, Voices of Courage will forever change your perspective on life after a sexual assault. Each chapter Is written by a different survivor of sexual assault.

Professionals, survivors, family members, educators, educational institutions, and the military use the stories throughout Voices of Courage to connect with both the devastation of assault and the strength inside every survivor. You will be go from hard-hitting emotion to moments of a survivor making you smile.

Take yourself and others you know on this empowering journey!

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Inside Voices of Courage

Each chapter is written by 12 survivors of sexual assault sharing their personal story of survival told in his or her own words. Whether you are reading the book or listening to the survivors on the CDs, you will quickly notice the survivors in this book represent a truly inclusive group of individuals, including males and females, sexual orientations, race, lifestyles, and geographical locations. The sexual assaults discussed in this book range from child molestation, incest, clergy abuse, “date rape drug” facilitated, acquaintance rape, marital rape, and stranger attack to other forms of sexual assault.

Unlike most books on sexual assault that mainly focus on the horror of rape, Voices of Courage reveals the determination and strength that surviving sexual assault brings to many survivors’ lives. You will be uplifted and inspired by the amazing strength these 12 role models live with on a daily basis.

Excerpts from Each Chapter:

“I have found healing in the process. For every time I tell my story, it loses a little bit of its hold on me.” Linda, Survivor of Rape by a Serial Rapist

“Tears that aren’t shed, return to the soul and remain. Today, I release those tears. I get lighter all the time.” Shirley, Survivor of Incest

“When I talk with students about sexual assault, I tell them that men can be sexually assaulted and that if they hadn’t ever known of a male survivor, they do now.” Ben, Survivor of Rape Induced by Date Rape Drugs

“I still get excited about the little things in life, like I did before you hurt me.”
Caroline, Survivor of Acquaintance Rape

“Survivors of sexual assault can and must be heard — through poetry, art, music or public speaking.” Karen, Survivor of Spousal Rape

“That is why I became an advocate. This is my fight. I have been featured on television shows and radio shows for one purpose: to stop violence against the vulnerable.” Donna, Survivor of Multiple Rapes including Clergy Abuse

“My rape added another dimension to my existence, but it has not replaced all the others, it does not define who I am. I want people to know that I am a regular young woman with a normal life and great expectations.” Adrienne, Survivor Drug-Facilitated Gang Rape

“I was tired of feeling sorry for myself and was ready to use my experience to help others.” Juliette, Survivor of Acquaintance Rape

“To face that depth of despair is to enter a deep, dark, frightening chasm. But it’s worth it, for when we emerge, it is into a place of light and calm. The result of surviving that dark place is an amazing strength.” Barb, Survivor of Rape

“I feel whole again.” Gabriel, Survivor of Child Molestation

“I am a rape survivor, but there is more to ‘survival’ than simply coming out of the attack alive. Survival is a process that molds you into the person that you will become. I am very proud of who I am, and I owe so much of that to my family and friends.” Cheri, Survivor of Rape by Stranger Attack

“I knew that I couldn’t change what had happened to me, only how I would deal with it.” Angela, Survivor of Acquaintance Rape

Survivors CD Set

DSC04224This Voices of Courage 4 CD Set is a defining example of why the voices of sexual assault survivors need be heard throughout our society. This wonderful CD set helps remove the “silence” from sexual assault. You can download all the audio tracks for FREE below.

On the audio CDs and the downloadable audio tracks of Voices of Courage, listeners will hear each survivor from the book read his or her own chapters. Plus, you will get to listen to interviews of the survivors discussing the process of sharing their personal experiences with others. Hearing the actual voices of the survivors sharing their innermost thoughts and memories is a truly moving experience for all listeners.

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Since all of the recording for this set was done via the telephone, the sound quality may vary on the CDs. However, the impact of listening to the survivors read their chapters is priceless.

Reviews

Every two minutes in America, someone is the victim of rape or sexual assault. In this informative and emphatic book, we are faced with the tragedy and triumph of victims of this violent crime. Voices of Courage can help us all better understand the trauma that victims experience and ways to help them survive and thrive after the crime.”
Scott Berkowitz,President and Founder, RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)

A wonderful collection of diverse victims stories, told crisply and directly, and each with a different message. Many voices speaking through poetry, journals, and stark description of terrible experiences… but more important, recovery from them. In these terrible experiences, honestly told, lies a hidden grace – that of coming to new understandings and finding directions for recovery.
Gary Schoener, Psychologist, Author & Expert on Sexual Violence by Professionals

It doesn’t get any more real than this! Voices of Courage tells the stories of victims who have endured the ultimate betrayal to their bodies, minds, and spirits and through the process have moved on to become courageous survivors.
Joyce Arends, MSW, LICSW, New Horizons Crisis Center

Voices of Courage is without question the best book on the market to help others feel on a visceral level what it might feel like to be a survivor. Each chapter is written from the depths of the heart of a survivor who opens her or his world to the reader with a story of pain that ends in hope for recovery and change in a world dominated by rape culture. I was so moved by this book and by the accompanying CDs that I made it required reading for people I train about sexual assault. I play the CDs to keep my employees in One in Four focused on our mission — to end rape. Mike Domitrz has pieced together an outstanding volume of survivor stories that will long be help up as the gold standard in our field. Thank you Mike, and moreover, thank you to the courageous survivors who shared their stories with us throughout this unique volume.
John D. Foubert, Ph.D., Founder of One in Four

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Profits Donated — You Are Making A Difference

Crisis centers, coalitions, schools, and organizations throughout the world continue to need the financial assistance of individuals and private organizations to help fund essential programs and initiatives.

By purchasing Voices of Courage, you will be helping efforts to make a difference. All profits from the sale of this book will be donated to organizations which work to raise awareness, educate society, and support survivors of sexual assault. A professional advisory council has been selected by the The Date Safe Project to choose those organizations that will receive the profits from this book.

In addition to the contribution you make in buying Voices of Courage, you can continue to give financial and human resources to the organizations listed on the Resource page. Your giving of time or money can help reduce the occurrences of sexual assault while, at the same time, supporting survivors of this horrific crime.

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Media Room

Media Inquiries
Contact Rita Hookstead Toll Free (800) 329-9390
E-mail: media@voicesofcourage.com

The majority of the sexual assault survivors in this book are happy to accommodate requests for media interviews, appearances, and book signings. Best of all, the combination of their diverse and powerful personalities will WOW your audience!

Many of the survivors in Voices of Courage have extensive, prior experience with appearing in print, on radio and TV (including CNN and the “Catherine Crier Show”), and speaking before Congress. If you are interested, you can have several of the survivors appear together in the same interview/show.

Now is the ideal time setup an interview with these incredible survivors. E-mail us at
media@voicesofcourage.com
as quickly as possible to schedule an interview with an individual survivor or with a group of the survivors from Voices of Courage. You can download the entire press packet below. If you are looking to setup an interview immediately (need a guest for a show today or an upcoming date), call Mike Domitrz toll free (800) 329-9390.

Press Packet:
General Media Release for Voices of Courage
Meet the Survivors in Voices of Courage
Great Questions For Interviewing Survivors in Voices of Courage
Voices of Courage Entire Book Cover
Voices of Courage Front & Side Book Cover

About the Editor

mike_seriousMike Domitrz, nationally renowned expert and critically-acclaimed author, has devoted his life to educating society on sexual assault awareness. After experiencing the devastation of his sister being sexually assaulted in 1989, Mike was determined to make a difference.

Within two years, he had created and designed his own interactive program – titled “Can I Kiss You? Dating, Communication, Respect, & Sexual Assault Awareness to educate the public on this important issue. His ability to combine a sense of humor with hard-hitting emotion has made Mike one of America’s most sought-after speakers at schools, college campuses, and community events.

As Mike was traveling the country, he continually heard survivors and people of all ages asking, “Are there any great books that share the stories of survivors?” He realized that Voices of Courage was desperately needed and so he began the process of finding survivors from throughout the country who truly represented diverse experiences. He teamed up with the publishing team from his popular book May I Kiss You? A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect & Sexual Assault Awareness to create a wonderful sharing of stories by survivors!

With Voices of Courage, all profits from the book go to organizations dedicated to addressing the many issues surrounding sexual assault.

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Featured Survivors

Throughout the year, survivors will be featured here at The Date Safe Project, Inc. as the “Featured Survivor.” Individuals are nominated by their peers, educators, professionals, students, and/or can nominate themselves. The “Featured Survivor” represents some and/or all of the below criteria:

  • A sexual assault survivor who has helped others.
  • A survivor who’s own journey has inspired others and is willing to share here.
  • A sexual assault survivor.

The first “Featured Survivor” will be recognized on September 8th. You will find their story and a picture of the individual here on the website (if he/she chooses to include a picture).

NOMINATE someone today. Individuals will be recognized throughout the year and so it is never too late to nominate a person. To nominate an individual, send an e-mail to nominate@datesafeproject.org. In the e-mail Subject line, type “Featured Survivor” and include the following information inside the e-mail:

  1. Name of Nominee
  2. Location of Nominee (city and state)
  3. E-mail address AND phone number of Nominee (will be kept confidential. We must contact the nominee for approval to give them the recognition on the website).
  4. WHY you feel this person deserves the recognition (must be at least 50 words in length).
  5. YOUR NAME and contact information (e-mail and phone number).
  6. Your affiliation with this individual.

The recipient of the “Featured Survivor” will receive a certificate and an e-book of their choice from The Date Safe Project, Inc.. The recognition may be used in all personal and professional manners (resumes, vitae, awards, scholarships, etc…).

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Tour Schedule

More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the “Can I Kiss You?:”

About Watch the Video “Train the Trainer”
Reviews from Students
College Tour Schedule
Huge Attendance
Continuing Impact Reserve a Date Downloads

See when the “Can I Kiss You?” program and Mike Domitrz is coming to a town near you!

Due to the high demand for the “Can I Kiss You?” program each year, the best way to insure getting Mike Domitrz to your community is to reserve a date as quickly as possible.  As you scroll down this page, you will see his entire schedule.  Because Mike believes in keeping a healthy balance between his family and his traveling, he does limit the amount of dates in which he is available to speak each semester.  Call (800) 329-9390 today to reserve a date!

**NOTICE:  When a date on the calendar says, “Tentative” – that date is often still available.  To find out more about any “Tentative” date, call Rita in our offices at (800) 329-9390.

Block Booking Discount
By bringing the “Can I Kiss You?” program and Mike Domitrz to speak when he is already in your region, you save hundreds of dollars off the speaking fee.  Why?  The travel costs are spread over multiple events and so the savings are passed onto YOU.  When you call Rita in our offices to bring Mike to your community, she will be happy to help build a block of events in your region.

Call 800-329-9390 TODAY to get an available date!

Limited Dates are Available (a set number of presentations are given each year)

**To learn more about Mike Domitrz, click here.

Bring the “Can I Kiss You?” Program to your community. Call now to receive a special 20 page informational magazine and to find the best remaining dates available. Toll Free 800-329-9390 or click here to email us.

More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the “Can I Kiss You?:”

About Watch the Video “Train the Trainer”
Reviews from Students
College Tour Schedule
Huge Attendance
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Resources

NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS

Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nation’s largest anti-sexual assault organization. RAINN operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1.800.656.HOPE. RAINN carries out programs to prevent sexual assault, help victims and ensure that rapists are brought to justice. RAINN uses its extensive entertainment industry and community-based connections to educate more than 120 million Americans each year about sexual assault.
Toll-Free: (800) 656-HOPE
Website: www.rainn.org

MaleSurvivor, the National Organization against Male Sexual Victimization, is committed to preventing, healing, and eliminating all forms of sexual victimization of boys and men through treatment, research, education, advocacy, and activism. The organization maintains a web site (www.malesurvivor.org) that includes a wealth of information for survivors and professionals about male sexual victimization as well as a Discussion Board and live Chat Room where survivors can network and support one another, anonymously if they wish. MaleSurvivor also publishes a newsletter and sponsors periodic conferences and healing retreats.
Website: www.malesurvivor.org

AdvocateWeb is the largest internet resource dealing with sexual misconduct, exploitation, and abuse of clients by mental health professionals, medical professionals, clergy, lawyers, educators, and law enforcement officials. AdvocateWeb offers extensvie free resources for victims, survivors, their families, friends, victim advocates, and professionals seeking to address this problem.
Website: www.advocateweb.org

The Awareness Center is the Jewish Coalition Against Sexual Abuse/Assault (JCASA). JCASA is dedicated to addressing sexual violence in the Jewish communities around the world.
Toll-Free: (443) 857-5560
Website: www.theawarenesscenter.org

The Arizona Department of Health Services: Sexual Violence Prevention & Education provides rape prevention education to students, professionals, and community members. These interventions have covered all racial and ethnic groups throughout Arizona – including Native American and Hispanic groups.
Toll-Free: (602) 542-7343
Website: www.azrapeprevention.org

The Date Safe Project is committed to being a national leader in the mission to teach youth and adults that “asking first” makes all the difference in creating safer intimacy and decreasing occurrences of sexual assault. By producing interactive presentations, educational resources, and other national initiatives, we teach how a better understanding of consent leads to healthier dating and to a greater awareness of the many issues surrounding human sexuality and sexual assault.
Toll-Free: (800) 329-9650
Website: www.datesafeproject.org

FaithTrust Institute is a national multifaith organization is working to end sexual and domestic violence. WE provide communities and advocates with the tools and knowledge they need to address religious and cultural issues related to abuse. Through training, consultation, and educational materials, we equip religious leaders sexual and domestic violence in their communities.
Website: www.faithtrustinstitute.org

National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is a comprehensive collection and distribution center for information, statistics, and resources related to sexual violence. It serves as a resource for coalitions, rape crisis centers, allied organizations, and others working to eliminate sexual assault. The NSVRC does not provide direct services to sexual assault victims but rather supports those who do.
Toll-Free: (877) 739-3895
Website: http://www.nsvrc.org

SAKHI provides services for South Asian Women dealing with Domestic Violence.

Stop It Now! is a national non-profit working to prevent child sexual abuse using the tools of public health. Since 1992, our public policy, public education, and research programs have protected children by emphasizing adult and community responsibility.
Toll-Free: (888) PREVENT
Website: www.stopitnow.org

Security On Campus, Inc. is the only national non-profit organization devoted exclusively to providing services to the victims of violence on college campuses and to educate students. When SOC works with victims, university policies are changed for the better.
Toll-Free: (888) 251-7959
Website: www.securityoncampus.org

Men Can Stop Rape mobilizes male youth to prevent men’s violence against women. The organization builds young men’s capacity to challenge harmful aspects of traditional masculinity, to value alternative visions of male strength, and to embrace their vital role as allies with women and girls in fostering healthy relationships and gender equity.
Offices: (202) 265-6530
Website: www.mencanstoprape.org

Voices of Strength a new series of survivors sharing their words.

STATE COALITIONS AGAINST SEXUAL ASSAULT

To find local rape crisis centers, click on the name of your state coalition against sexual assault and you will be forwarded to their website. If they do not have a working website, then call the number provided. They will be happy to help you the closest rape crisis center.

Alabama Coalition Against Rape
(334) 264-0123

Alaska Network on Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
(907) 586-3650

Arizona Sexual Assault Network (AzSAN)
(602) 258-1195

Arkansas Coalition Against Violence to Women and Children
(800) 269-4668

California Coalition Against Sexual Assault
(916) 446-2520

Colorado Coalition Against Sexual Assault (CCASA)
(877) 37-CCASA

Connecticut Sexual Assault Crisis Services, Inc. (CONNSACS)
(860) 282-9881

Sexual Assault Network of Delaware (SAND) c/o CONTACT Delaware
Phone (302) 761-9800
Crisis Line for Ken/Sussex Counties: (800 )262-9800

Florida Council Against Sexual Violence
(850) 297-2000

Georgia Network to End Sexual Assault
(678) 701-2700

Dekalb (Georgia) Rape Crisis Program
(404) 377-1429

Hawaii Coalition for the Prevention of Sexual Assault
(808) 733-9038
(808) 733-9028

Idaho Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence
(208) 384-0419

Illinois Coalition Against Sexual Assault (ICASA)
(217) 753-4117

Indiana Coalition Against Sexual Assault, Inc. (INCASA)
(317) 423-0233

Iowa Coalition Against Sexual Assault (Iowa CASA)
(515) 244-7424

Kansas Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence
(785) 232-9784

Kentucky Association of Sexual Assault Programs, Inc.
(502) 226-2704

Louisiana Foundation Against Sexual Assault (LaFASA)
(985) 345-5995
(888) 995-7273 (Toll-free number from Louisiana)

Maine Coalition Against Sexual Assault
(207) 626-0034

Maryland Coalition Against Sexual Assault
(410) 974-4507

Jane Doe Inc., The Massachusetts Coalition Against Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence
(617) 248-0922

Michigan Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
(517) 347-7000

Minnesota Coalition Against Sexual Assault
(612) 313-2797
Toll Free: (800) 964-8847

Mississippi Coalition Against Sexual Assault
Department of Health – Mississippi State
(601) 987-9011

Missouri Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
(573) 634-4161

Metropolitan Organization to Counter Sexual Assault
(816) 931-4527

Montana Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
(406) 443-7794

Nebraska Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Coalition (NDVSAC)
(402) 476-6256
In-state toll free hotline: (800) 876-6238

Nevada Coalition Against Sexual Violence
(702) 914-6878 not a hotline number
Crisis Hotline: (800) 656-HOPE

New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
Hotline: (800) 852-3388
TDD/Voice: (800) 735-2964

New Jersey Coalition Against Sexual Assault -NJCASA
(609) 631-4450
Hotline: (800) 601-7200

New Mexico Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs, Inc.
(505) 883-8020

New York State Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NYSCASA, Inc.)
(518) 482-4222

North Carolina Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NCCASA)
(919) 431-0995
(888) 737-CASA

North Dakota Council on Abused Women’s Services – Coalition Against Sexual Assault in ND
Toll free: (800) 472-2911
(701) 255-6240

Ohio Coalition on Sexual Assault (OCOSA)
(614) 781-1902

Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
(405) 848-1815
Toll free: (800) 522-7233

Oregon Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence (OCADSV)
(503) 365-9644

Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape (PCAR)
Toll free: (800) 692-7445
(717) 728-9740

Rhode Island Sexual Assault Coalition
(401) 421-4100

South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
(803) 256-2900
Toll Free: (800) 260-9293

South Dakota Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Abuse
(605) 945-0869

Tennessee Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
(615) 386-9406
Info Line: (800) 289-9018 (8 a.m. – 5 p.m. M-F)
Hotline: (800) 356-6767

Texas Association Against Sexual Assault (TAASA)
(512) 474-8161

Utah – CAUSE – Coalition of Advocates for Utah Survivors’ Empowerment

Vermont Network Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
(802) 223-1302

Virginians Aligned Against Sexual Assault (VAASA)
(434) 979-9002

Washington Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs
(360) 754-7583

West Virginia Foundation for Rape Information & Services
(304) 366-9500

Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault (WCASA)
Phone/TTY: (608) 257-1516

Wyoming Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
Hotline: (307) 235-2814

Sites run by Survivors of Sexual Assault

Powerful words of Nika
Rape Counsel
HOLLY’S FIGHT TO STOP VIOLENCE
Sadly Normal
Finding the Light in the Darkness
Survivors can Thrive!
Beautiful Dreamer – Journal
Angela Shelton’s Blog

**If you are a survivor of sexual assault who has an internet site or blog, please e-mail us at info@DateSafeProject.org with the link you want us to add to this section of our website. All we request is for you to first have a link to www.voicesofcourage.com and to www.datesafeproject.org. Thank you!

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Person of the WEEK

The Date Safe Project’s first PERSON of the WEEK is Cheri, a strong and courageous sexual assault survivor who inspired me to begin speaking out against sexual assault / rape and would go on to inspire the founding of The Date Safe Project, Inc. at http://www.DateSafeProject.org and now The Date Safe Foundation (the new non-profit organization being established).  Cheri’s strength, determination, will, and love for her family are a few of the reasons she has been a special role model to all us here at The Date Safe Project, Inc..

As I travel the country speaking in schools, on college campuses, and on military bases, audience members are continually moved by Cheri’s story.  Many individuals come up to me to share how amazing Cheri is and how much her story has helped them personally.  In 2005, Cheri chose to share her journey in the book Voices of Courage:  Inspiration from Survivors of Sexual Assault (at http://www.VoicesOfCourage.com).  Her sharing has positively touched thousands of people around the world.

To many people, they refer to Cheri as their “Coach,” I am blessed to call her my sister.  Cheri, I love you and thanks for all you have done and continue to do!

WHO IS YOUR “Person of the Week”? Share your nomination for a future “Person of the Week” by typing your recommendation in the “Leave a Reply” box below.  Each week, a new group of individuals will be considered and one will be announced.  Get your nomination in today!

P.S.  To follow each week’s “Person of the Week” and our daily “Challenge of the Day,” subscribe to our YouTube page at http://www.YouTube.com/DateSafeProject.org and follow us on Twitter at http://www.Twitter.com/DateSafeProject

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Monday, June 15th Challenge of the Day

The Date Safe Project’s Challenge for the Day today is to tell us WHO is YOUR “Person of the Week” – find at least one person in your life who has positively influenced you on relationships, intimacy, equality, and in honoring sexual assault survivors.  Then, thank the person.  Look him or her right in the eye and let this special person know how much you appreciate him or her.

Next, tell us about the person and what they did to make a difference in the “Leave a Reply” box below:

Here is the video of today’s “Challenge of the Day”:

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Sexual Assault Awareness Signs Being Torn Down at Princeton

SpeakOut is a simple posting found in bathroom stalls all over Princeton’s campus. SpeakOut is thought provoking and raises awareness about sexual harassment and assault. Unfortunately, their signs are disappearing. Why? The people who make up the SpeakOut group believe it is a form a protest.

The SpeakOut group was formed because it was recognized that 1 in 12 college men have conducted themselves in such a way that they have met the legal definition of rape. Additionally, the group disagrees with current slang found on campus that degrades women and makes light of sexual assault.

Click here to read more.

SpeakOut would like to see the issues of campus sexual assault and date rape recognized. Instead their message is being torn down literally.  We encourage SpeakOut to stay determined – as many of us around the country support their efforts!!

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Students, Teachers, Parents, and Administrators Tackle Sexual Harrassment

Monday, February 4, 2008 marks the third annual “National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Week’.  Beginning Monday, students across the country will begin campaigns bringing to light this reality among our children.  Sadly, this reality has been an unnoticed problem for a long time.

According to the CDC (Center for Disease Control and Prevention) a reported 9% of American teens reported they have been physically hurt by their boyfriend or girlfriend.  Even more frightening is the way technology is being used to stalk, intimidate and abuse our children.  Many teens are embarrassed to admit this is going on and it goes unreported. 

As parents, educators, and law enforcement, it is our responsibility to teach our children that violence and dating is not ok, to identify what is acceptable behavior, and what to do if they do not like how they are being treated.  We need to give them the tools to stay safe and date safe! 

Here are some great links for more information: www.TheSafeSpace.org and www.BreakTheCycle.org

SHARE In the "Comments" section what students are doing in your area.  If you have ideas for schools, parents, or law enforcement, share with us.

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Helping it RAINN for sexual assault survivors across the country.

If you are aware of R.A.I.N.N. (the Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network), you know the wonderful work Scott Berkewitz and his entire staff does for survivors.  When sexual assault survivors e-mail us asking for resources available to them outside of their local area, R.A.I.N.N. always does a great job of supporting those individuals.

How can you help?  The next time you have a member or friend is having a birthday, send a donation in their name to R.A.I.N.N..  Your gift will be a great sign of you thinking of your friend.  Plus, you get to make a positive difference.

Scott Berkewitz and I just got off the phone.  He was telling me about their new 24/7 Campaign you can contribute to.  Visit them at www.rainn.org and check it out.

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Honoring Martin Luther King Jr., His Legacy, & Respect

Martin Luther King Jr. once said, “A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a molder of consensus.” On this day set aside to remember and honor the positive impact he had on our world, may we all work to mold a new consensus of respect of all people, males and females.

May we work to insure “respect” is ingrained in every aspect of our society – from a 4 year old born into financial poverty to the wealthiest and most powerful leaders in our world.  For if respect was truly given and received by all and to all, we would have little need for the work many of us do.

Thank you, Martin Luther King Jr., for improving our world.  While many of today’s society were never alive to meet you or hear your words in-person, your legacy lives forever!

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