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Girlfriend is having inappropriate comments made by guys

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11:42 am
September 16, 2009


Kyle

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Just speak up but in a calm way. Tell them that its disrespectful and that you want them to please stop. It's the best way to not get into a fight and not piss anyone off on either side.

11:33 pm
September 15, 2009


cursexofxcurves

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If I was the girlfriend I agree with some people, def don't get in a fight. that shows nothing. I reccommend just saying hey man don't talk to a lady like that. to him you'll sound lame, to her she'll be glad you could stilll be respectful and defend her :)

3:43 pm
September 15, 2009


Chris

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Tell the guys nicely to stop making comments about your girlfirend, and tell her that the comments arent true and to ignore them.

3:43 pm
September 15, 2009


Chris

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Tell the guys nicely to stop making comments about your girlfirend, and tell her that the comments arent true and to ignore them.

9:40 pm
September 10, 2009


Theodore

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You may want to just cut to the chase in this situation. You want them to go away, and they will probably keep walking and forget about what they said or what you have to say. I think a "hey guys, show some respect, please" will do. If they seem to be people who are willing to listen, then I second JoyP's comment.

8:59 pm
September 10, 2009


Kati

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Ooh my boyfriend has asked me the same thing. DO NOT START A PHYSICAL FIGHT! Don't swear at them, don't rile their emotions. Calmly tell them they can't talk to your girl that way, and then tell your girlfriend not to listen to them because she's beautiful and amazing and so much more than just a pretty face for guys to look at!

8:20 pm
September 10, 2009


alicia

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i totally agree, girls like guys with confidence-- enough confidence where they'll stick up for their girl when they need to. and it does make a girl feel special, like you see the real beauty in her

11:51 am
September 4, 2009


JoyP

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I think you could make your girlfriend feel really special by standing up to the guys that make inappropriate comments.  Let them know that you won't tolerate those kinds of attitudes towards women, that all women deserve respect. But don't say "Don't talk to her that way, she's mine!" (or something like that), because then your girlfriend will feel like she's just a piece of property, something that can be possesed. 

12:25 pm
September 1, 2009


DSP

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The following question was sent to me via email and he gave permission for us to share this here in the forum.  He would like to hear everyone's opinion:

Hey Mike, I saw your show at my university and had a question. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years and have come across the problem with guys exhibiting inappropriate behavior toward her.  For example: walking by and saying (excuse my language) '' i'd f--k that '' and ''i'd hit that'' with me right there and this makes her very uncomfortable. What i can do or say when this happens to adress the problem and make her feel comfortable?

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