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May I Kiss You? Critically-Acclaimed Book

Have you ever noticed how both males and females love to give you tips on how to "Play the Dating Game" yet none of their tricks ever seem to work? There is no secret and there is not a  #1 Strategy to getting the partner of your dreams. In fact, the first rule you are going to discover is:
Stop PLAYING the dating game!

When you treat a relationship like a game, you are constantly worried about a strategy. In fact, you stop being yourself. Many times, you actually end up lowering your standards.  You become focused on what you want and thus become self-centered (thinking less of "we").  Discover the right way to treat yourself and every partner!

You are about to be taken on a journey revealing the faults of body language, the joys of talking, the serious effects of wrongful behaviors, how to EXPECT RESPECT from both partners throughout all facets of a relationship, how to help your family and friends, and more more!  Best of all, you are going to gain realistic skills you will have fun using in your own life.

May I Kiss You? A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect, & Sexual Assault Awareness is an in-depth look at the positive realities of intimacy and the dangers that exist in the current dating culture for teenagers and adults. Written by Mike Domitrz, this insightful book full of candid advice, real-life scenarios, and interactive exercises is revolutionizing each person's approach to dating & building respect - all while helping address the real risk of sexual assault.

While most people simply "make their move" on a date, Domitrz reveals why asking first makes all the difference. Students, parents, educators and professionals are experiencing success with this innovative, respectful and fun approach to dating.

Sample the book. Read the first three chapters. Click here.

Throughout the book, Domitrz provokes conversations between partners - each person taking a close look at behaviors and stereotypes without taking sides. An approach to dating and sexual assault that no other book has ever taken.

Plus, you get The Date Safe Project 30 DAY GUARANTEE.

Paperback book only $15.00 (25% off Retail 19.97)  E-book (pdf) = $9.97  

Inside May I Kiss You?

Concepts & Lessons Discussed:

  • 20 Interactive Exercises
  • Dating Fear Factors
  • Asking? Are you crazy?
  • Rejection
  • Body Language Challenge
  • Values
  • Respect
  • Long-term Relationships
  • Dating Gender Gap
  • Help
  • Privacy
  • Blame
  • Family & Friends
  • Responsible Change
  • Self-Defense
  • Awareness
  • Tips for Healthy & Fun Dating
  • Peer Pressure
  • Alcohol & Date Rape Drugs
  • Parties
  • Sexual Harassment
  • Double Standards
  • Talking
  • Supporting Survivors
  • Opening the Door for Survivors
  • The Pledge for Action
  • Making a Difference
  • ...and much more

Reviews of May I Kiss You?

Thank you also for writing for children and providing a positive framework of behavior for our youth. Click here to see this letter.

Laura Bush, former First Lady

In a cultural environment where all of us continually receive mixed and confusing messages about what a healthy, consenseual relationship might look like, Domitrz lights up the issue with welcomed rays of clarity and insight.

Pat McGann, Ph.D., Director of Outreach, Men Can Stop Rape, Washington, D.C.

Every student, whether male or female, needs to use this asking approach. Every parent who is concerned about their sons' and daughters' dating relationship (that's most of us!) should give this book to their teenagers.

Charles Zastrow, Ph.D., Professor, Department of Social Work, University of Wisconsin - Whitewater

I'm not aware of a book like this. May I Kiss You? gives a healthy, straight-forward method for ensuring respectful dating behavior. It is a must read for parents and teens! Mike puts into words what we’ve known but haven’t explained very well.

- Patti Broomell, Counselor, Hamilton High School

May I Kiss You? is a must read for students in high school and college. It will get your thinking about your current dating practices. If you think you would never sexually assault someone, think again--you may already have!

Sharon Hansen, School Counselor, Berlin Middle School, Berlin Wisconsin

The most important issues facing our youth today have been addressed in this sensational book on dating and sexual assault awareness. The angles taken by Domitrz reach the inner most thoughts of all ages, giving the reader detailed solutions to the entire dating experience. A must read!

Sharlene Stewart, a Parent, Immaculata, PA

Some books are just plain useful. And welcome.

If you have pre-teens or teenagers in your house or in your life, take a look at May I Kiss You?: A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect & Sexual Assault Awareness by Michael J. Domitrz.
This is a fresh, practical and strong-willed book about mutual respect and understanding. It tells young people how to express their affections in respectful and clear ways. It teaches them how to avoid the assumptions that lead to conflict and problems and it explains what sexual assault is.
Dan Hays in Statesman Journal -- appeared on June 15, 2003

Domitrz covers a sensitive topic in a unique manner...He makes you think about the very basic "kiss" and how even that act demands permission.
Catherine Lovecchio, Director of Health & Wellness Education, Villanova University

The book speaks to teens while informing parents and teachers. Domitrz speaks to both genders rather than focusing just on what girls need to do to not be victimized
Jennifer Hegge, Educational Resources Coordinator, Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault

A good common sense approach to creating respectful relationships and avoiding sexual assault, understanding its trauma, and helping a survivor. This book will be valuable for any young person who is thinking about what kind of relationship they want and how to insure that they are healthy.
- Alan Berkowitz, Independent Consultant for Sexual Assault Issues

Domitrz’s work is insightful, identifying the problems that can arise when men and women rely solely on body language, assumptions and interpretation to guide their actions.
- Youth Today (September Issue)

I really enjoy this book. I have recommended it to all of my friends. I would really like to help spread the importance of knowing dating, communication, respect, and Sexual Assault Awareness. I think this book will affect so many people in so many different ways. Everyone should read it!!!!!
- Brooke, A teenager from Milwaukee, WI

I LOVED the book, May I Kiss You? In fact, we teach a Healthy Relationship class in our local middle and high schools, and we have now added a whole presentation on consent. We had wanted to add that component which is why I found out about your book online. It was incredibly clear and helpful, taking my own understanding on quite a journey. Thank-you!!
- Meg Kuhner, Youth Coordinator, Battered Women's Services & Shelter

Of all the elements of consent, 'asking for permission' is the most fundamental. This book provides young adults with both an explanation and practical advice.
- Scott Hampton, Director. Ending the Violence

Given the changing nature of dating relationships over the past several decades, Mike's book provides a much-needed message for today's society. Everyone who reads this book, from parents to students to administrators and others, will benefit from this refreshing look at the age old topic of relationships. I highly recommend this book, and I am eagerly awaiting the arrival of Mike's next book!!
- David Dial, Residential Life, Louisiana State University

Domitrz simplifies the confusion of the dating process by urging readers to openly communicate their wants and needs. He empowers both males and females to transcend stereotypical gender roles and embrace a relationship that is free from sexual pressure and misunderstandings."
- Theresa Asmus, Counselor, Rape Crisis Service of Planned Parenthood of the Rochester/Syracuse Region, New York

The book speaks to teens while informing parents and teachers. Domitrz speaks to both genders rather than focusing just on what girls need to do to not be victimized.
- Jennifer Hegge, Educational Resources Coordinator, Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault

The book focuses all of us to take a look at ourselves, our actions, and the ability that we all have to promote change!
- Laura Pennimpede, Rape Crisis Community Educator, Victim Assistance Services

About the Author

Mike Domitrz has been traveling the country for over a decade teaching students, parents, educators and professionals about dating, communication, respect and sexual assault awareness. An award-winning speaker, Domitrz is known for his unique ability to inspire people of all ages to make powerful changes in their dating behaviors.

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