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Monthly, Exclusive Interview Series with Mike Domitrz

Mike Domitrz — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 18:59:58 +0000

Exclusive Interview Series with Mike Domitrz

Be ACCOUNTABLE in Life and Relationships:

Welcome to this month’s exclusive interview with a dear friend of mine, Sam Silverstein. Sam is the Founder of the Accountability Academy, THE international expert on personal accountability, and the author of the powerful life-changing book No More Excuses!

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K12 Certification Training

peppervirtual — Fri, 09 Dec 2011 09:41:07 +0000

Get Licensed with THE Educational Program

for Community Educators & Activists

Imagine achieving all 4 of the following goals in your local middle schools and high schools – in less than 60 minutes:

REDUCE dating violence & sexual assault.
INCREASE Bystander Intervention
…….STOP peers from using alcohol to facilitate a sexual assault.
Get MORE Students to Properly Support Survivors of Sexual Violence.
LOWER Frequency of Sexually Risky Behavior in Teens.

Impossible? Students in middle schools and high schools continually say they DO take the above actions after experiencing a certain one-hour educational presentation. Now, you have the opportunity to become certified to present this powerful program in your local schools.

GET RESULTS
I can’t recall an assembly that was more well received on such a relevant topic to the lives of young people in my 29 years in public education. …The results of evaluations that our students completed following this assembly were overwhelming in evoking pledges of positive behavioral change. I think this was a “wake up call.” ~Michael J. Droll, Tipton High School (IA)

Become THE SOURCE for your local schools!!

Presenting on sexual issues to middle school and high school students requires a highly trained professional because students are going to challenge you. You will have students in the audience who enjoy being a Heckler. The Heckler has one goal – to “mess you up.” If you lose your cool or lose control of the room, the presentation will fail. You must know the keys to effectively interacting with middle school through high school age students.



For schools to give you valuable class time, they will insist that you use an established program which is truly life-changing, content rich, engaging, and SAFE for their students. Throughout North America over the past two decades, the one solution *continually praised by educators and administrators is the “Can I Kiss You?” Show because each aspect of the program brings PROVEN RESULTS!*

For the first time ever, you have the opportunity to become certified to present the “Can I Kiss You?” program in your local middle schools and high schools. Participate in this fully comprehensive three-day “K12 Certification Training” from February 21st to 23rd in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, with internationally renowned educator and author, Mike Domitrz. During these 3 days with Mike, you will get the most powerful techniques for engaging students in middle schools and high schools. PLUS, you will become certified to present the “Can I Kiss You?” Show in your local schools!

In 3 jam-packed days, you will receive all the following:

WORKBOOK AND MANUAL. Follow along with Mike throughout the 3 days in this in-depth Workbook and Manual filled with great strategies and insights for presenting the “Can I Kiss You?” Show.
DETAILED SCRIPT of the “Can I Kiss You?” program. You will be one of the first people to ever receive the official script for the critically acclaimed presentation. You will have every word needed to bring this dynamic and powerful program to your community.

THE POWER YOU’LL BE GIVING STUDENTS:
“I wanted to let you know how much that presentation has changed my life. I brought my boyfriend with me to your presentation and it has brought a change in him I can barely recognize. I knew that he loved me, but now he shows it by respecting me. I just wanted to say thank you and what you are doing is amazing.” – Student in WI

CLASSROOM vs. ASSEMBLY SPEAKING. Discover the techniques professional speakers utilize to create a powerful impact with ALL audiences. Sharing with an individual classroom is very different than speaking to 500 or 1,000 students in a general assembly. Thus, you must know the formula for being a successful speaker with audiences of ALL SIZES.

Over 700 students learning AND having fun.
The speaking and improv skills you will obtain during this workshop will stick with you for life – including when Mike Domitrz reveals how to use the “Call-Back” Strategy to get students to take an in-depth look at their own decision-making. To see and hear an entire school unite for positive change is an incredible accomplishment you will love being a part of!
APPROPRIATE AND HILARIOUS HUMOR . When discussing what is often an uncomfortable subject for many students, integrating effective humor into your speech is a necessity. Like adults, students learn FASTER while laughing. Once students are having fun, their mental and emotional barriers are broken down. Now, their minds are open to new ways of thinking.

Telling a joke or “being funny” is very different than utilizing humor with an educational goal as the focus. Even people who think they are naturally funny will often FAIL with student audiences. The good news for you is the script is already written with lots of humor included. At the LIVE training, Mike will reveal how to bring the humor in the script to LIFE. Get ready to HAVE FUN!

Wait. Are you someone who doesn’t think you are funny? By learning the techniques Mike is going to share with you, YOU WILL GET LAUGHS. In fact, Mike has frequently found the people who “think” they are not funny are often the best presenters for getting students to laugh.

“I like the way you use humor to soften the mood of what could be an uncomfortable subject.” Student

ABSTINENCE vs. COMPREHENSIVE SEX ED: Do your local schools teach “Abstinence Only” or “Comprehensive Sex Ed,” or do you have both approaches being taught in your region? Good News! The “Can I Kiss You?” program works with all school approaches to sexual education. Too many organizations use programming schools consider to be controversial. If you can’t get into the school, making an impact is nearly impossible.

“Can I Kiss You?” has been successful in Catholic middle schools; high schools where condoms are handed out to students; rural communities, inner cities, and some of the country’s most elite boarding schools on the East Coast. You will be getting certified for a program schools consider to be SAFE. Best of all, you will be helping create positive change in the lives of students.

“Your language and examples were right on target for our age group. They were riveted in their seats”
- Yvonne McGilvary, Teacher at St. Charles School Burlington (WI)”

During the K12 Certification Training, Mike will provide you with specific language to use based on your local school’s approach to sexual education. If you’ve run into conflict with local schools in the past, bring the comments administrators have stated to you and Mike will provide you with potential solutions.
HANDLING THE HECKLER: Veteran speakers turn to Mike Domitrz for this one-of-a-kind approach he has successfully used throughout the years. Mike will quickly show you how to turn hecklers into fans with his proven, non-threatening approach for overcoming those “challenging” moments. You will have a blast experimenting with this technique throughout the 3-day training.

“You presented such important issues in such a non-threatening manner. We will definitely be asking you to return to our campus. Thank you again for this presentation. You are really on track by connecting with the audience. I will be in touch with you again, that’s for sure!”
- Suzanne Sarner, Counselor, Sussex County Technical High School (NJ)
INVALUABLE EXPERIENCE – LIVE. You will have the option to present pieces from the script to a small group of peers during the 3-Day Training. Several attendees will get the chance to present to the entire group and receive personal feedback from Mike Domitrz.
The GUIDE SCHOOLS LOVE: Do you love when someone provides you a resource that makes your life EASIER? The Event Details Guide is that exact resource for the schools you are going to work with (whether it’s one person or a committee). The Event Details Guide is a 32-page in-depth packet with all the tiny bits of detail middle schools and high schools demand, including but not limited to:
Layouts for how to setup the room for the presentation;

Receiving prewritten letters to send to parents;

Sample Press Releases for local media;

How to build community support for this life changing program; and

MUCH MUCH MORE…
Every time the packet is updated throughout the year, you will receive the newest version from The Date Safe Project.
NIGHT OF GIVING & RECEIVING. On this special evening during the 3-Day Training, you will learn everyone’s best ideas and “Aha” Moments (“Best Practices” that attendees are currently using as well as ideas generated by the group during the training). By sharing, we all grow and expand our possibilities.
Using TECHNOLOGY with Students: See why you WANT the students to have their phones on while you speak. Mike Domitrz will show you an easy way to engage students with their cell phones – while you are actually speaking with them. Plus, he will give you a cool way to keep the conversation going with the students long AFTER you leave the school – all through basic cell phone technology. Gain simple ways to ENGAGE your audience through technology.
CERTIFICATION for ONE YEAR to present the “Can I Kiss You?” program in middle schools and high schools throughout your local region starting on February 27, 2012 (can be renewed before February 26, 2013).
RESULTS = ACTION! The purpose of an educational program is not just to raise awareness. The ultimate goal is to GET STUDENTS TO TAKE ACTION. After experiencing you present the “Can I Kiss You?” Show, students in your community will no longer be passive bystanders. In fact, all genders will look forward to peacefully intervening in dangerous situations.

Students will want to stop the predator at the parties; students will want to ASK FIRST when in an intimate moment (and will want their partners to ASK FIRST); and they will open their hearts and minds to the survivors in their lives – both now and in the future. Imagine helping students take all these actions. You have the opportunity. Become a Certified “Can I Kiss You?” Trainer and Presenter.

After capturing their curiosity and respect, Mike leads his audience in a profoundly practical exploration of the importance of asking.”
~ Dr. Debra Mashek,
Editor of Handbook of Closeness and Intimacy.
ONLINE VIDEO TRAINING You will receive FULL ACCESS to Online Video Training for ONE YEAR (video recording of the live training you will participate in from Feb. 21st to 23rd in Milwaukee, WI). Throughout the year, go back and watch any section of the training. Each week, take a few minutes to fine-tune your presentation skills. Included is an online forum for continually sharing with all the wonderful people you will get to know during the training.
EXCLUSIVE RIGHTS TO YOUR LOCAL AREA. Upon registering for the 3-day training, you will be guaranteed the exclusive rights for presenting the “Can I Kiss You?” Show in your local middle schools and high schools. The sooner you register, the quicker you will be promised your region. Providing you exclusive rights ensures you will not be “competing” with another nearby agency also trying to offer the “Can I Kiss You?” program to your local middle schools and high schools.

BONUS

GET TWO COMPLETE RESOURCE PACKAGES :

25 Paperback editions of the May I Kiss You? Books for classroom use [$300 Value]
Interactive and easy-to-use Instructor’s Guide for May I Kiss You? Book [$175 Value]
HELP! My Teen Is Dating. Realistic Solutions to Tough Conversations” DVD & Book Set [$49.97 Value]
The COMPLETE SET of the “Do You Ask?” Educational Poster Series on Healthy Dating & Consent [$80 Value]
Two of every T-shirt The Date Safe Project Inc sells to students (Both versions of the “Can I Kiss You?” Shirts and the “Want Some Action? RESPECT the Answer” T-shirts) [$150 Value]
1,000 “Can I Kiss You?” Tattoos and Buttons [$420 Value]

Each Package is Worth $1,174.97 x 2 = $2,349.94 VALUE

You will have the ultimate combination of resources to make your first presentation a HUGE SUCCESS and to provide your local schools with plenty of follow-through materials.

3 Powerhouse Days with Mike Domitrz:
February 21st – 23rd, you will be getting a rare opportunity to work with one of the leading minds for discussing verbal consent, encouraging bystander intervention, and supporting survivors of sexual assault. You will get to explore and fully comprehend the skills, strategies, and techniques Mike utilizes with middle school and high school students.

You will be challenged, entertained, and inspired by a critically acclaimed author, producer of educational materials, and award-winning speaker. Mike Domitrz is continually sought out by organizations and institutions around the world (from local crisis centers to the U.S. Military). Members of the National Speakers Association seek him out for his incredible track record of engaging audiences AND getting people to take positive actions in their lives.

Be a part of this one-of-a-kind event. Mike has NEVER opened his mind to one group at a live event like he will be for those attending the K12 Certification Training. To guarantee an intimate environment for sharing and learning, REGISTRATION IS LIMITED.

If you have ever had the opportunity to see Mike Domitrz speak, you know his passion for making a positive difference is contagious. By working closely with Mike, you are going to find new ways to draw from your own passion and personal mission to positively impact every audience!

Known for holding nothing back, Mike Domitrz is one of the most openly giving professionals. You will hear the nitty-gritty of presenting a highly interactive presentation: the good, the bad, and the awesome! With Mike sharing as many scenarios as possible during the 3-day training, you will gain a newfound confidence to handle any situation you will face while presenting the “Can I Kiss You?” Show. In fact, you will look forward to the first time a “challenge” comes your way!

DID YOU KNOW? The most highly respected professional trade organization in the world for experts and speakers, the National Speakers Association, recently shared 5 minutes of the “Can I Kiss You?” Show with their members in a brand new segment titled “Awesome Excerpts.” The segment shares live audio from the top speakers in the world.

This past November, Mike received a standing ovation from the Canadian Association for Professional Speakers Convention after he shared unique ways to interact with audiences in his luncheon keynote. Mike Domitrz is the ONLY expert and ally addressing healthy dating, respect, boundaries, bystander intervention and supporting survivors who has earned the Certified Speaking Professional Designation from the National Speakers Association. To do so, your clients over 5 YEARS must rate you at least a 7.5 out of 10 in EVERY category (Mike averages a 90% approval rating with audiences). Plus, you must present at least 50 presentations a year for 5 consecutive years. With Mike Domitrz, you KNOW are working with a seasoned and highly respected professional!

BONUS TIME TOGETHER
Each morning during the K12 Certification Training, get your day started with a dose of positive energy by joining Mike on a group walk (optional). Use this time walking with Mike to ask questions.

The VALUE FOR YOU
When educational institutions and crisis centers around the country contract The Date Safe Project to have Mike Domitrz present the “Can I Kiss You?” program and his popular “Train the Trainer” Workshop in their communities, the standard fee is $6,000 a day. With the K12 Certification Training, you will be getting 3-DAYS with Mike for a tiny fraction of the typical investment.

Plus at the end of the 3-days, you will be certified to give the “Can I Kiss You?” Show (with the exact same content Mike presents) for an entire year in your community. Become THE #1 SOURCE for the middle schools and high schools in your surrounding area to turn to for creating a positive change in the behavior of their students.

Why is the certification specifically for middle schools and high schools only? While the majority of school systems WANT the “Can I Kiss You?” program brought to their community, they do not have the budget to fly Mike Domitrz into their local schools. Thus, schools will be THRILLED for you to provide the program for free or at a greatly discounted fee. Once again, you become the expert everyone is requesting!

THE CERTIFICATION
The K12 “Can I Kiss You?” Certification is provided to ENSURE that the quality and effectiveness of presentations is consistent throughout the United States and North America each year. When you are known for offering an educational program with a fantastic reputation, getting into your schools is much easier. Schools will open their doors more freely.

The Renewal
The yearly renewal is necessary to maintain a reputation of excellence among all providers of the “Can I Kiss You?” program in middle schools and high schools throughout the world.

SAVE MONEY & RAISE MONEY
Mike understands all the budget pressures agencies, nonprofits, and schools are currently experiencing and so he has created a unique system for nonprofits and schools to both save money and raise money.

SAVE UP TO $6,000 a day. Once you are certified on February 23rd, you can present the program yourself and save all the costs of bringing Mike Domitrz to your middle schools and high schools for the next 12 months!

Be a RESELLER. Provide all the educational resources from The Date Safe Project at greatly reduced prices. Then use the profits as a fundraising source for your nonprofit or school system.

Resources include popular T-shirts, books, DVDs, and much more. You can even sell the #1 selling educational posters for addressing consent, bystander intervention in dating violence, and respect of dating boundaries – the “Do You Ask?” Poster Series.

Earning ADDITIONAL INCOME: If you choose to charge for the presentations in your local schools (as low as $500 a day to no more than $2,500 a day), you get to keep the fee you charge – a great avenue for raising revenue for you, your nonprofit, and/or school.

No LIMITS
Once certified, present the “Can I Kiss You?” Program as many times as you want in middle schools and high schools in your specified region throughout the year (starting February 27, 2012). **The certification is good specifically for presentations to Middle School and High School students (not valid for any other audiences including but not limited to conferences, colleges, universities, corporations, military installations).

Renewing your certification is required to continue presenting the educational program after February 26, 2013. The annual renewal only requires an investment of $1500. You do not have to attend a live training to have your certification renewed.

BONUSES for the FIRST 10 to REGISTER:

$1,500 DISCOUNT off the registration fee.
[EARLY BIRD SPECIAL]
Get a 20-minute personal consultation with Mike Domitrz during the 3-day training. Bring your questions because this is your one-on-one time with Mike.
[$500 Value ONLY available to first 10 registered attendees]
Participate in a TWO-HOUR IN-PERSON Consultation with Mike Domitrz the next time he is speaking in your region (meet him at the location of the event).
[$2,000 Value ONLY for first 10 registered attendees]
SPECIAL DINNER with Mike Domitrz at his home for a selected group of participants to be able to brainstorm and network with Mike.
[$750 Value ONLY for first 10 registered attendees]
Receive FOUR 30-minute phone sessions with Mike Domitrz over the next 6 months following the K12 Certification Training.
[$2,000 Value ONLY available for up to 20 registered attendees]
GET A BONUS 4th DAY with Mike Domitrz to attend a LIVE PRESENTATION on February 24th in a local middle school or high school near the location of the training. After the program, everyone will get to ask Mike questions about the presentation and the audience interaction they witnessed. Plus, you get a special 3-hour session with Mike to wrap up the training.
[$3,000 Value ONLY available for up to 30 registered attendees]

BONUSES COMBINED = $9,750 VALUE

YOUR INVESTMENT
Be one of the first 10 people to register and you will receive over $28,000 in extra training, coaching, and resources.

$9,750 in Bonuses Guaranteed to First 10 Registered (as listed above)

$2,349 in 2 Resource Packages (listed above)

$16,000 for 3-days of Training with Mike Domitrz

$28,099 worth of Training and Coaching for ~~$4,000~~ only $2,500 with the Early Bird Discount.

SCHOLARSHIPS & PAYMENT PLAN NOW AVAILABLE!!

Get the EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT when you register and your investment will only be twenty-five hundred dollars ($4,000 Registration Fee with $1,500 Early Bird Discount = $2,500 investment). Receive over $28,000 worth of training for only twenty-five hundred dollars!

TO GET A SCHOLARSHIP, read to the bottom of the page.

SUPER MEGA BONUS:
and Bring a SECOND PERSON FOR FREE!!
If you are one of the FIRST 10 People to Register, your guest gets to participate in the special bonuses with you! Bringing a colleague or friend with you results in the 2 of you getting over $56,000 in value for a total of only twenty-five hundred dollars!!

APRIL is Sexual Assault Awareness Month! By getting this exclusive training NOW, you will be able to offer all the schools in your region the “Can I Kiss You?” program in APRIL for Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Fantastic timing for your community!

GAIN LIFETIME SKILLS for connecting with and opening the minds of middle school and high school students (both in classroom settings and for school assemblies). You will be getting students to make POSITIVE CHANGES in their behavior toward themselves, their friends, and their partners! Working with schools will be more fun than ever before.

Be THE SOURCE for creating change in your local schools!

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Understanding Child Abuse and Neglect

Mike Domitrz — Thu, 04 Aug 2011 16:00:04 +0000

Written by Guest Blogger, Sharon Fox.

Child abuse is more than broken bones and bruises. While physical abuse is shocking due to the scars it leaves, not all child abuse is as obvious. Ignoring children’s needs, putting them in unsupervised, dangerous situations, or making a child feel worthless or stupid are also child abuse. Regardless of the type of child abuse, the result is serious emotional harm.

There are several myths about child abuse that need to be addressed. Here are a few of them.

Myths and facts about child abuse and neglect:

MYTH #1: It’s only abuse if it’s violent.

Fact: Physical abuse is just one type of child abuse. Neglect and emotional abuse can be just as damaging, and since they are more subtle, other people are less likely to intervene.

MYTH #2: Only bad people abuse their children.

Fact: While it’s easy to say that only “bad people” abuse their children, it’s not always so black and white. Not all abusers are intentionally harming their children. Many have been victims of abuse themselves, and don’t know any other way to parent. Others may be struggling with mental health issues or a substance abuse problem.

MYTH #3: Child abuse doesn’t happen in “good” families.

Fact: Child abuse doesn’t only happen in poor families or bad neighborhoods. It crosses all racial, economic, and cultural lines. Sometimes, families who seem to have it all from the outside are hiding a different story behind closed doors.

MYTH #4: Most child abusers are strangers.

Fact: While abuse by strangers does happen, most abusers are family members or others close to the family.

MYTH #5: Abused children always grow up to be abusers.

Fact: It is true that abused children are more likely to repeat the cycle as adults, unconsciously repeating what they experienced as children. On the other hand, many adult survivors of child abuse have a strong motivation to protect their children against what they went through and become excellent parents.

If you know of a child who is being abused or neglected, please contact your local Child Protective Services Department or Police. Every child deserves to live a happy and safe life.

—————————–
Sharon Fox
Protect Our Children Foundation

Sharon Fox is an author and child abuse activist. Being a survivor of Childhood Sexual Abuse is what prompted her to fight so hard to protect the innocenc of children. To learn more about Sharon and protecting a child or children from abuse and neglect, visit www.goodcookin4u2.webs.com or www.protectourchildren.webs.com .

Download or Listen to Interview with Amanda Graybill

Mike Domitrz — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 05:48:16 +0000

Get the recording of the LIVE INTERVIEW with Amanda Graybill from the Little Black Dress Society. The entire program is free for everyone who registers below.

***You must sign-up below to have access to the recording. Then you can listen to the entire interview at any time you choose.

Who: Amanda Graybill, Founder of The Little Black Dress Society (www.lbdsociety.com) and author of the book: “The Little Black Dress.”

Details: Listen in as Amanda Graybill is interviewed by Mike Domitrz from the The Date Safe Project. Amanda’s book “The Little Black Dress” is an inspirational fiction about a young woman who runs away from home looking for love in all the wrong places. Amanda will share how more people can get involved in reducing abuse and how to help those in abusive relationships. She is committed to getting more women involved in her mission and will share why doing so is important (and how to do so).

Cost: FREE (Register Below)

Mother of Teen Survivor on Dr. Laura Berman

Mike Domitrz — Fri, 22 Apr 2011 16:00:01 +0000

Dr. Laura Berman had Mike Domitrz as her guest.

This past Tuesday when Dr. Laura Berman from the Oprah Radio Network (OWN) had me on as her guest expert, the mother of a teenage survivor of sexual assault called into the show. The sexual assault occurred 2 years ago and now the daughter is a teenager. The Mom was asking how to help her daughter set appropriate boundaries as she approaches dating. The lessons shared on the show are true for all teenagers.

You will hear strategies you will not typically hear anywhere else.

Click here to watch and listen to the clip from the show at http://www.oprah.com/oprahradio/Help-Teens-Stay-Safe-While-Dating-Audio. Then, be sure to come back here and LEAVE A COMMENT below.

Its Time to Ask First (starting now in April)

Mike Domitrz — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 04:16:47 +0000

April is Sexual Assault Activism Month across the country. As we promised yesterday, each day we are posting a special message, photo, and/or video in honor of all survivors. The theme this year is “Its Time” and so we share with you IT’S TIME TO ASK FIRST. Enjoy the music video below. Remember to leave your comments in the SPEAK YOUR MIND section below.

Teens & Texting: What To Do?

Mike Domitrz — Sat, 26 Feb 2011 15:43:55 +0000

Yes, texting is in the news again. How do you oversee the use? Lets compare to how teens use computers. For safety and overseeing what is occurring on your home computers, I am a big advocate for a program called WebWatcher.

You don’t censor with WebWatcher. You watch what decisions are being made on your computers. The information you learn helps you have better conversations with your teens about “appropriate use of the internet.” You are not spying because you can tell your teens you keep an eye on the computers in the house (after all, your home computer lets people in and out of your home at any hour someone is on that computer).

We need to understand texting can have an equal impact on your child and/or family. When Texting first came out, many of us advised parents from having teens use Texting unless for an emergency situation. Now the use of texting is so widespread, all of us must learn to address the “appropriate and proper use” of texting.

How and When are your teens texting? According to a recent study by the creators of an app called textPlus, “43% of teenagers use their cell phones to text during class.” From educators I’ve spoke with, they believe 43% may be low. Here is a great example of improper use. How do you solve it? Share how having a phone or iTouch comes with responsibility.

Share with your teenager, “I believe you can handle the responsibility which is why you have a phone/iTouch. If you can’t handle the responsibility, then we need to limit the use of your phone and/or iTouch. For instance, if we discover the phone/iTouch is being used during school, you will not be able to take the phone/iTouch to school. We’re not going to yell out. We will simply require you leave it at home when going to school.“

Yes, I am the parent of high school students. I understand the pressure for parents to feel like “All the other parents let their kids do whatever they want with their phones.” However, you hopefully wouldn’t let your teenager use that false logic for decision-making of “everyone else is doing it” and so remind yourself not to fall into the trap when parenting.

The classroom use of texting is just one example of the distraction texting can cause in one’s life. The dangers of texting are much worse. We haven’t even mention sexting in today’s blog (because we’ve addressed sexting in the past and will do so again in the near future).

Share your thoughts, fears and/or concerns about texting in our COMMENTS section below. I will personally respond to each comment!

QUICK TIDBIT:
While there is no guarantees with parenting, the more involved and AWARE you are in your child’s life, the more you have an opportunity to create a positive impact!

Remember to leave a comment below. I look forward to personally responding to each comment!!!

Top 10 Songs, Blaming Girls, and More in Today’s News

Mike Domitrz — Sat, 26 Feb 2011 01:57:15 +0000

In Today’s News, we discuss Usher, Eminem, Train, Katy Perry, the upcoming “Monster” music video, and why the media is focusing on “girls & sex” on TV. Watch, read the follow-up, and then SHARE!

Read the blog entry titled “Girls Are to Blame for Teen Sex (According to the PTC ).” PTC stands for Parents Television Council. What do you think of the blog’s viewpoint?

When it comes to the “Monster” by Kanye West music video (find the lyrics at lyrics.com), both the lyrics AND the video are concerning on many levels. What can we do to combat the release of the video and/or to address the video when its launched in its entirety?

Discuss what you think of the “Start Strong” Project’s list of healthy and unhealthy relationship songs (“Start Strong” was created by the Boston Public Health Commission). Often people forget to READ the lyrics of songs. Remember you can find the lyrics of all the following songs at lyrics.com (warning: some content may have “R” rating).

Top 10: Songs with UnHealthy Relationship Ingredients (2010)

1. Lil Freak by Usher

2. Hot Tottie by Usher

3. Love The Way You Lie by Eminem (ft. Rihanna)

4. Misery by Maroon 5

5. Only Girl by Rihanna

6. You Love Is My Drug by Kesha

7. F*** You by Cee lo

8. Deuces by Chris Brown (ft. Tyga)

9. Eenie Meenie by Justin Bieber (ft. Sean Kingston)

10. Give It Up To Me by Shakira (ft. Lil Wayne)

Top 10: Songs with Healthy Relationship Ingredients (2010)

1. If It’s Love by Train

2. Teenage Dream by Katy Perry

3. Everything To Me by Monica

4. Smile by Uncle Kracker

5. If We Ever Meet Again by Timbaland (ft. Katy Perry)

6. Naturally by Selena Gomez

7. When I Look At You by Miley Cyrus

8. Nothin On You by BoB (ft. Bruno Mars)

9. Mine by Taylor Swift

10. Just The Way You Are by Bruno Mars

Finding the Right Book for Your Class & Students

The Date Safe Project Inc — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 06:22:32 +0000

Educators, when it comes to dating and sexuality, do your students struggle to connect with the many complexities involved with consent, respect, boundaries, bystander intervention, sexual assault, and supporting survivors? If so, you know how FEW resources are available for these discussions. For most teachers and professors, finding a comprehensive and effective solution for the classroom feels impossible.

Why? Talking about dating and sex can be uncomfortable for people of all ages. Where do teenagers look for their answers? The internet and friends. Of course those sources are full of serious and dangerous PROBLEMS!!

May I Kiss You? A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect, & Sexual Assault Awareness is an in-depth look at the realities of intimacy and the dangers that exist in the current dating culture for teenagers and young adults. Written by Mike Domitrz, this candid advice, real-life scenarios, and interactive exercises is revolutionizing each student’s approach to dating & building respect–all while heightening awareness of sexual assault.

While most people simply “make their move” on a date, Domitrz reveals why asking first makes all the difference. Students, parents, educators and professionals are experiencing success with this innovative, respectful and fun approach to dating.

Throughout the book, Domitrz provokes conversations between males and females — each gender taking a close look at behaviors and stereotypes without taking sides. An approach to dating and sexual assault that no other book has ever taken.

Plus, a brand new “Instructor’s Guide” is being released in the next few weeks. Every person who purchases the book today will receive a FREE COPY of the “Instructor’s Guide” e-book.

The Date Safe Project 30 DAY GUARANTEE & FREE SHIPPING
is included with ALL orders in the continental United States.

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Inside May I Kiss You?

Concepts & Lessons Discussed:

20 Interactive Exercises
Dating Fear Factors
Asking? Are you crazy?
Rejection
Body Language Challenge
Values
Respect
Long-term Relationships
Dating Gender Gap
Help
Privacy
Blame
Family & Friends
Responsible Change

Self-Defense
Awareness
Tips for Healthy & Fun Dating
Peer Pressure
Alcohol & Date Rape Drugs
Parties
Sexual Harassment
Double Standards
Talking
Supporting Survivors
Opening the Door for Survivors
The Pledge for Action
Making a Difference
…and much more

Reviews of May I Kiss You?

In a cultural environment where all of us continually receive mixed and confusing messages about what a healthy, consenseual relationship might look like, Domitrz lights up the issue with welcomed rays of clarity and insight.

Pat McGann, Ph.D., Director of Outreach, Men Can Stop Rape, Washington, D.C.

Every student, whether male or female, needs to use this asking approach. Every parent who is concerned about their sons’ and daughters’ dating relationship (that’s most of us!) should give this book to their teenagers.

Charles Zastrow, Ph.D., Professor, Department of Social Work, University of Wisconsin – Whitewater

I’m not aware of a book like this. May I Kiss You? gives a healthy, straight-forward method for ensuring respectful dating behavior. It is a must read for parents and teens! Mike puts into words what we’ve known but haven’t explained very well.

- Patti Broomell, Counselor, Hamilton High School

May I Kiss You? is a must read for students in high school and college. It will get your thinking about your current dating practices. If you think you would never sexually assault someone, think again–you may already have!

Sharon Hansen, School Counselor, Berlin Middle School, Berlin Wisconsin

The most important issues facing our youth today have been addressed in this sensational book on dating and sexual assault awareness. The angles taken by Domitrz reach the inner most thoughts of all ages, giving the reader detailed solutions to the entire dating experience. A must read!

Sharlene Stewart, a Parent, Immaculata, PA

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About the Author

Mike Domitrz has been traveling the country for two decades working with and teaching students, parents, educators and professionals about dating, communication, respect and sexual assault awareness. An internationally renown expert and award-winning speaker, Domitrz is known for his unique ability to inspire people of all ages to make powerful changes in their dating behaviors and their treatment of others!

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Additional REVIEWS

Some books are just plain useful. And welcome.

If you have pre-teens or teenagers in your house or in your life, take a look at May I Kiss You?: A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect & Sexual Assault Awareness by Michael J. Domitrz.
This is a fresh, practical and strong-willed book about mutual respect and understanding. It tells young people how to express their affections in respectful and clear ways. It teaches them how to avoid the assumptions that lead to conflict and problems and it explains what sexual assault is.
Dan Hays in Statesman Journal — appeared on June 15, 2003

May I Kiss You? by Michael J. Domitrz is a sexuality, and awareness guide focusing on the complex contemporary issues surrounding dating, intimacy, and above all, the importance of asking first. Stressing the importance of coming to a mutual understanding concerning the most private moments, and with a firm view of the problems of sexual assault and harassment, May I Kiss You? has the very highest recommendation for all — anyone of any age who seeks to pursue a romantic relationship — and should be readily available in every high-school, college, and community library in the country.
On the complex contemporary issues surrounding dating, September 15, 2003 Reviewer: Midwest Book Review from Oregon, WI USA

Of all the elements of consent, “asking for permission” is the most fundamental. This book provides young adults with both an explanation and practical advice.
Scott Hampton, Director, Ending the Violence, Dover, New Hampshire

Domitrz covers a sensitive topic in a unique manner…He makes you think about the very basic “kiss” and how even that act demands permission.
Catherine Lovecchio, Director of Health & Wellness Education, Villanova University

The book speaks to teens while informing parents and teachers. Domitrz speaks to both genders rather than focusing just on what girls need to do to not be victimized
Jennifer Hegge, Educational Resources Coordinator, Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault

A good common sense approach to creating respectful relationships and avoiding sexual assault, understanding its trauma, and helping a survivor. This book will be valuable for any young person who is thinking about what kind of relationship they want and how to insure that they are healthy.
- Alan Berkowitz, Independent Consultant for Sexual Assault Issues

Domitrz’s work is insightful, identifying the problems that can arise when men and women rely solely on body language, assumptions and interpretation to guide their actions.
- Youth Today (September Issue)

I really enjoy this book. I have recommended it to all of my friends. I would really like to help spread the importance of knowing dating, communication, respect, and Sexual Assault Awareness. I think this book will affect so many people in so many different ways. Everyone should read it!!!!!
- Brooke, A teenager from Milwaukee, WI

I LOVED the book, May I Kiss You? In fact, we teach a Healthy Relationship class in our local middle and high schools, and we have now added a whole presentation on consent. We had wanted to add that component which is why I found out about your book online. It was incredibly clear and helpful, taking my own understanding on quite a journey. Thank-you!!
- Meg Kuhner, Youth Coordinator, Battered Women’s Services & Shelter

Domitrz covers a sensitive topic in a unique manner… He makes you think about the very basic ‘kiss’ and how even that act demands permission.
- Catherine Lovecchio, Health & Wellness Director, Villanova University

Of all the elements of consent, ‘asking for permission’ is the most fundamental. This book provides young adults with both an explanation and practical advice.
- Scott Hampton, Director. Ending the Violence

May I Kiss You? is not only a must read for students but for every adult as well. The realities of dating and intimacy are something that everyone needs to be aware of. It is nice to have something that directs this issue at young men as well as young women. Many books direct this issue primarily at women because they are statistically at greater risk but the realization is that both genders are affected. Young men need to have this awareness too and to have a clearer concept of what dating should be. I like this book because it outlines many of the misconceptions that people have in dating practices. There are so many confusing aspects in dating relationships that people don’t even recognize that can lead to sexual misconduct. This book helps illustrate some of those aspects. May I Kiss You? can benefit all of us. As an educator in the community on sexual assault issues, I have found it to be a useful resource for myself both personally and professionally.
- Susan Kouns, Rape Victim Services, Pathways Inc.

Given the changing nature of dating relationships over the past several decades, Mike’s book provides a much-needed message for today’s society. Everyone who reads this book, from parents to students to administrators and others, will benefit from this refreshing look at the age old topic of relationships. I highly recommend this book, and I am eagerly awaiting the arrival of Mike’s next book!!
- David Dial, Residential Life, Louisiana State University

Domitrz simplifies the confusion of the dating process by urging readers to openly communicate their wants and needs. He empowers both males and females to transcend stereotypical gender roles and embrace a relationship that is free from sexual pressure and misunderstandings.”
- Theresa Asmus, Counselor, Rape Crisis Service of Planned Parenthood of the Rochester/Syracuse Region, New York

The book speaks to teens while informing parents and teachers. Domitrz speaks to both genders rather than focusing just on what girls need to do to not be victimized.
- Jennifer Hegge, Educational Resources Coordinator, Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault

The book is unique because it addresses an important issue in an honest, down to earth fashion. The tone is one of concern and reading the book feels like a conversation with Mike. This easy to read book presents a wealth of information to teens and adults alike. Its light approach to a serious subject is very comprehensive and much needed in the world of dating and exploring relationships.
- Suzanne Trummer, ATODA Coordinator, Watertown School District

The book focuses all of us to take a look at ourselves, our actions, and the ability that we all have to promote change!
- Laura Pennimpede, Rape Crisis Community Educator, Victim Assistance Services

Today, someone was giving away free copies of this book. Always interested in reading material, and always curious about relationship issues, I picked it up and read it…

A lot of the stuff I already knew and understood (or at least thought I did). Other parts were things I’d sorta thought about, but never really sat down and analyzed. Others I just didn’t think about, period.

While reading the book I realized that I’d been treating my last would-be boyfriend badly. I never thought of it as assault, but there were still times when I acted in a relatively intimate manner… and had no idea whether he wanted it or not. I knew he was attracted to me. But I didn’t know if he was comfortable with what I wanted to do. And to be honest, I was so drunk with wanting to be intimate that I was quite willing to risk doing something he didn’t feel ready for. And besides, I was the girl. He could always turn me down, right?

I feel terrible for it now. Even before reading this book I felt badly about it, but now I know how to be aware of that ‘drunkenness’ when I feel it, and how to force it back and remind myself to be respectful of him. After all, it’s not his body that I’m really attracted to, it’s his own personness. His unique soul. How can I disrespect him by only worrying about what “I” want?

I’m glad that I didn’t go any further than I did. And I know there were times when he wanted to do things, but wasn’t comfortable enough to try them – or was worried about how I would feel about them, then or later, and kept himself from doing things he thought were disrespectful. I’m so glad for that. And now I think I can learn to be as strong as he has been.

This book has helped me a lot, even if it’s so simple in what it’s saying. I’m going to pass it around to people I know, even if I think they already know the lesson, just to help remind them what they believe and why. Sometimes reading a book like this can help strengthen your own values.

Anyway.. just wanted to say, thanks for writing this, Mr. Domitrz. And thanks, whoever it was who was giving away the books. At least one person has learned something from them.
- Robin, a college student in Texas

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Mike Domitrz talks with a student in Lake Forest, IL

His Story & Mission
Award-Winning Author & Publisher
Educator, Ally, and Expert

His Story and Mission:

Why does Mike Domitrz, Founder of The Date Safe Project, have such an intense passion and drive to:

Dramatically improve society’s approach to healthy dating;
Create a better understanding of how “consent” is obtained in intimacy;
Reveal the keys to effective bystander intervention with alcohol and sexual activity; and
Teach how to properly support survivors of sexual assault?

In 1989, Mike received a phone call informing him his sister had been raped. As he held the phone tightly to his ears, he simply could not believe what he was hearing. For two years, he struggled to deal with the rape and the effect it had on his life – both as the brother of a rape victim and as a male. He transferred colleges – so he could be close to home and his sister during the trial. Once back home with his family, Mike saw the pain, rage and sadness his parents, relatives, and family friends were also going through. The sexual assault of his sister had changed many people’s lives.

As months went by, Mike and his sister became even closer than before. While going to school during these challenging times, Mike noticed no one was addressing one of the most serious elements of sexual assault — a failure to obtain consent. The average person was NOT relating to the importance of needing to have permission before engaging in an intimate act with another person. Most individuals did not realize their current dating practices were based on standards of disrespect.

When it came to talking about the rape of his sister, no one knew what to say to him, his sister, or his family. Most people had never been given the skills needed to support a survivor of sexual assault or his/her family members. For the majority of people, talking about sexual assault was taboo.

Mike decided to make a difference. In 1990, Mike approached one of the few experts who spoke around the country on sexual assault. The expert was surprised and impressed with how Mike was a college student passionate about making a real difference on the issues surrounding sexual assault. The expert provided Mike with lots of information including myths, laws, stories, and interactive exercises. As Mike continued to research the issue of sexual assault and dating, he constantly heard students complaining that most sexual assault seminars, speakers, and experts were boring and depressing. At the same time, parents were saying, “My child would never do that“, but their kids were doing “that” and worse. Almost no one was connecting to the issue. Mike knew what needed to be done.

Students having fun learning during "Can I Kiss You?" show

He started a “one person show” using a powerful tool, humor, to open people’s minds. Once people were laughing, they were much more likely to listen. With everyone’s attention glued to the program, Mike would show the devastation and trauma caused by sexual assault. The name of Mike’s program became “Can I Kiss You?” and has gone onto to be presented in schools, universities, communities, military installations, and at conferences throughout the world. He has created a truly interactive and engaging program that inspires change in the lives of each audience member.

While Mike’s program is one of the most sought after educational presentations today, the journey for Mike took time. Keep in mind he started this work during an era when schools were not openly discussing sexual assault. Mike had to know what he was talking about.

While originally designing and producing the “Can I Kiss You?” show as a college student in 1991, Mike compiled extensive research from a diverse group of resources to insure his message was accurate, honest, and delivering healthy lessons. At first, he started speaking at elementary schools, middle schools, and a few high schools. From 1992-1993, he spoke in over 40 school systems in his region. Then, he began speaking on college campuses. While educators were praising his approach, most schools were still too afraid to bring a program discussing intimacy and sexual assault to their students. While society wasn’t ready, Mike was not going to give up.

Over the next decade, Mike worked as DJ and high school coach where he honed his skills in:

Interactive education;

Mike roles play with a student from the audience in "Can I Kiss You?"

Educating teenagers;
Working with college students; and
Performing in front of big and small audiences

He was determined to work in any capacity he could in order to be an at-home Dad working on the mission. In 2002, a couple of educational experts saw Mike present his “Can I Kiss You?” program at a national conference and they were amazed he was not traveling the country full-time speaking. They began to tell everyone about his work and soon he was being sought throughout the country by organizations, schools, parents, campuses and the US Military.

Mike’s desire was to leave an impact much longer lasting than any one speaker could create.
In 2003, he founded The Date Safe Project, Inc. – our organization dedicated to leaving a positive impact on the many issues surrounding sexual assault and healthy intimacy. Rita was the first professional to join Mike as part of the DSP team and is still the person who takes care of you when you call today.

“I especially want to say how easy it was to work with your office. Rita was very helpful and always so quick to respond to any questions that arose.“
Janet Zylstra, Director of Health Services, Cardinal Stritch University

Since 2003, The Date Safe Project, Inc. has grown to 5 team members – helping organizations and individuals throughout the world. We are honored to be one of the leading organizations for creating educational materials on consent, respect, sexual assault, and supporting survivors. Schools, parents, students, community organizations, crisis centers, and the military constantly tell us they turn to The Date Safe Project, Inc. for realistic solutions to tough conversations.

For Mike, his work is based on his greatest inspiration – his sister. Her strength and courage inspired him to speak out at the age of 21 years old. Today, her inspiration has helped change many people’s lives around the world. His sister is the entire reason the book Voices of Courage was created (she is one of the survivors/contributing authors in the book). Mike wanted everyone to see the amazing strength inside of each sexual assault survivor. Nothing could accomplish that goal as powerfully as his sister and the other 11 survivors did when they agreed to share their stories in the book Voices of Courage. From the start, ALL profits from the book and audio CDs have been donated to organizations addressing sexual assault.

Today, Mike is grateful to be the father of 4 boys and married to his wife of over 16 years – all who support and believe in his calling. While being dedicated to the mission of The Date Safe Project, Inc., Mike has always stressed the importance of setting aside time for family – for both himself and the entire DSP team. For all the recognitions and awards he has received, Mike has always said, “My greatest blessing in life is my family. THEY are amazing.” For this reason, he limits how many events he speaks at each year. However, he never stops trying to create new mediums and outlets for sharing the important messages in his programs. His drive to share is what led Mike to writing and creating educational materials.

Award-Winning Author and Publisher

As Mike was speaking throughout the country, he was continually receiving requests from students, educators, and parents to create educational products which share the powerful lessons he reveals in his “Can I Kiss You?“ program. People wanted a resource that was just like his presentations — interactive, humorous, challenging, emotionally honest, and filled with skill building activities.

Since that time, Mike has become one of the most respected and prolific writers/producers of materials addressing healthy dating, consent, sexual decision-making, bystander intervention, sexual assault awareness, and supporting sexual assault survivors.

Help! My Teen is Dating. Real Solutions to Tough Conversations is Mike’s latest resource for families and is hailed as a MUST HAVE for parents of all teenagers. With the DVD, you get over 80 minutes of interactive, funny, engaging, and powerful DVD video footage filled with precise tools to help your children face the confusing and frustrating times of dating and relationships. To learn more about this powerful educational DVD for Moms and Dads of teenagers who want to better prepare their sons and daughters for dating and the many decisions regarding intimacy they are bound to face, visit: www.helpmyteenisdating.com.

In 2003, Mike wrote his first book: May I Kiss You? . . . to rave reviews from 12 year olds to college students to parents to members of the military to book reviewers around the country. Mike had written a direct and to the point “How To” book for dating. Filled with exercises and challenges, the reader finds him/her self questioning the current dating system and discovering a much healthier and more romantic solution — Asking First! To learn more, click here.

While writing his first book, he was already planning for his second. From the inspiration of his own sister and the many survivors he had met over the years, Mike wanted to give the world a book that would demonstrate the incredible strength and courage sexual assault survivors display on a daily basis. In 2005, he brought twelve survivors of sexual assault together from around the country to share their personal journey to healing and recovery in the critically-acclaimed book Voices of Courage. All profits from Voices of Courage are donated to organizations addressing the many issues surrounding sexual assault.

In addition, Mike has contributed chapters and sections to many books available in stores and online. You can learn much more about Mike’s books and all his educational products (CDs, T-shirts, buttons, and posters) in the “Educational Tools & Resources” section of this website. Due to the impact his products and resources have had on society, educators, schools, the US military, and the media continually turns to Mike as one of the leading educators, allies, and experts for responding to current news stories.

Bring Mike to Your Community. Call now 800-329-9390 (or click here to email us) to receive a special 24 page informational magazine and to find the best remaining dates available.

Educator, Ally, Expert, and Media Source

With Mike, you get a passionate educator and a top authority who leads the way by challenging the norms and status quo. You get a dedicated ally who commits to always respecting every aspect of a very sensitive topic AND working hard for every client to help create a positive impact (an advocate on your side). You get an engaging and blunt professional who TV, radio, and print outlets say captivates their viewers, listeners, and readers.

Audience members quickly connect with Mike’s personal mission. All genders know he is their ally. At the conclusion of each presentation, Mike thoroughly enjoys spending time with every interested audience member. When people from all walks of life approach Mike and share with him, he is honored. The greatest moments are often the words shared by survivors!

“I will never forget the impact you have made on my heart and those around me. I am a victim of rape . . . God is working through you in so many ways, and I just pray that hearts continue to be open and willing to listen to what you have to say.”
– A student from Hastings College

Each year, Mike works closely with school systems, university campuses, and community organizations (service groups and crisis centers) to help improve their ability to create long lasting change for teenagers and adults alike. Often when Mike is speaking in a middle school or high school, the local crisis center is the organization who brought him to the community. Why? Because his work and approach is highly respected by those in the know.

Laura Bush, First Lady

“Thank you also for writing for children and providing a positive framework of behavior for our youth. With best wishes“

Click here to read entire letter.

When speaking on a college campus, the health center, counseling center, Women’s Center, Gender Studies, Residence Life, Athletics, Dean of Students, and Student Activities frequently TEAM UP to bring him to their students. Why? Because each department on campus knows Mike will bring a positive perspective and give their students what they need emotionally, intellectually, and for their overall life education.

“I thought he was wonderful – full of life, energy, and enthusiasm…he made you stop and think and appreciate the “being” in human. I look forward to seeing him again next year.” Elizabeth Marcuse, President, LIM College

When military installations bring Mike to present, frequently he is first contacted by the SARC (Sexual Assault Response Coordinator). Once leadership attends the “Can I Kiss You?” briefing, they put the word out for everyone to attend! Why? Mike’s respect of the military’s perspective is apparent right from the start. Military Leaders appreciate his understanding of their challenges and realize how Mike can help them overcome obstacles with the men and women they lead.

As an educator, professionals continually seek out his special “Going All the Way with . . .” training workshops. Teachers, professors, activists, community educators, and advocates love how open and sharing Mike is in each workshop. He gives you the tools to do what he does back in your community. Teachers have driven 5 hours to attend Mike’s one hour training programs to help them better connect with their students and audiences.

NBC, ABC, and CBS have all featured Mike’s work. Over the years, he has appeared on over 40 shows (radio/TV). His live interviews leave reporters and broadcasters talking about the lessons he shared well after he leaves their studio and/or offices. Radio personalities love how Mike can engage listeners and keep an interview flying throughout. Journalists and writers turn to Mike for captivating quotes and comments for their next story.

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